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Dublin: 13 °C Wednesday 19 June, 2013

Column: ‘We are the 17 per cent’ – the story of a migrant in Ireland

Dil Wickremasinghe recalls how she arrived in Ireland 12 years ago, then worked her way up to find success. (And true love.)

Dil Wickremasinghe

THE LATEST 2011 Census figures reveal that 17 per cent of Ireland’s population was born outside Ireland. That’s nearly 1 in 5 people and shows that diversity has become a permanent fixture of Irish society – but why are migrants still choosing to live here?

As I am a proud member of the 17 per cent I would like to share my story of coming to Ireland in an effort to shed some light on why many migrants are continuing to stay despite the challenging economic climate.

My journey started in Italy as I was born in Rome to Sri Lankan parents. Then I moved to Sri Lanka when my parents separated, which then led me to work as a flight attendant for a Middle Eastern airline based in Bahrain. After five years I was considering emigrating once again to either Australia or Ireland. I had my place booked in a Melbourne university but at the very last minute I changed my mind to Ireland. Partly because I liked the idea of returning to Europe, but mostly because I genuinely liked the Irish.

I finally arrived in Ireland in June 2000. I was just 25 years old, I had 1250 punts in my pocket, I only knew one person and I had no idea what I was going to do with myself. However I knew two things for sure, firstly, I wanted to live in a country which accepted me for who I was – even though at that time I had no clue what that was!

Secondly, I knew I had this relentless fire in my belly that would often keep me up at night which made me believe I had so much to offer to this world but again had no idea what shape that would take! I was ready to work hard and give living in Ireland my best shot!

So like many migrants I started from the very bottom and worked my way up – I started as a kitchen porter, a catering assistant, a bar tender, a waiter, a receptionist, HR administrator, junior recruitment consultant, senior recruitment consultant to then owning my own training company in 2006, which I am happy to say is weathering the recession nicely!

‘I’ve embarked on a life-long dream’

Then that same year I noticed how the face of Irish media was not changing to reflect our new Ireland. Radio was my first love back in Sri Lanka so I started to volunteer in a community radio station in Blanchardstown where I produced and presented a live radio show, which then led me to join the Newstalk team in 2008 to present Global Village, a social justice programme which airs every Saturday at 7pm.

Recently we even broadcast live from Dublin’s Mansion House on the invitation of the Lord Mayor, Andrew Montague as he happens to be a fan of the show. The theme of the show, which was supported by Dublin City Council and the Immigrant Council of Ireland, was “We are the 17 per cent”, and it was a celebration of the contribution migrants are making to Ireland.

Apart from my work in media and also working as a diversity, equality and personal development trainer more recently I have embarked in a life-long dream of mine: to do stand-up comedy. After taking part in a documentary called Journey Of A Joke which featured on DCTV last year, I launched Ireland’s first alcohol-free comedy club in Accents Lounge, a late night opening cosy coffee shop. Yes, you read it right, it’s alcohol-free and it has been running for almost a year which does prove that the Irish can have a good time without a drink!

I came to Ireland just 12 years ago and I can honestly say that Ireland has been good to me. Not only have I reaped many benefits professionally but for the first time I have found happiness in my personal life. I feel comfortable in my own skin as a gay woman which was not easy as my parents were deeply religious and kicked me out of the family home when they found out I was gay at the age of 17.

‘I’m confident that I am giving back tenfold’

Furthermore, I am also a survivor of sexual abuse but thanks to the services of One in Four I have been able make the transition from surviving to living my life. More importantly, I have found true love in a beautiful Irish woman called Anne Marie and for the first time in my life I am even engaged!

But for everything Ireland has given me, in the form of opportunity, acceptance, equality and belonging through citizenship, I am confident that I am giving back tenfold as I am sharing my talent, skills, passion and vision with the view to make a positive contribution to Irelands future.

Mine is just one of the 766,770, migrant stories that initially originated in foreign lands but now have arrived here on Irish shores and are contributing in shaping our new Ireland.

These are challenging times and we are all struggling; but we are not leaving, as the last census has shown. This is our new home and we want to stay and play our part in steering the nation towards better and prosperous times. We are the 17 per cent. Look past our skin colour and our accents and look deep into our eyes and see that we came here with big dreams and hopes for a better life, all we need now is your continued respect, acceptance and true equality, in order for us to shine and share our light with you.

Every person, including the 17 per cent, now living in Ireland has the right to reach their true potential and together we can rebuild this beautiful nation of ours.

Dil Wickremasinghe is a broadcaster with Newstalk 106-108 FM, a social entrepreneur and a stand-up comedian. For more information, visit her website.

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Comments (40 Comments)

  • Nice story Dil, welcome, even if it’s 12 years later!

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  • It is great to read something positive about making a future in Ireland especially from somebody who chose to come here to make a good life for themselves. Well done!

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  • Well done and keep up the good work :-)

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  • Nice heart-warming story, I do believe that Irish people are quite welcoming in most instances.
    I have to ask though- you turned down a place at Melbourne University to work as a kitchen porter in Ireland?

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  • Excellent piece, well written and inspiring.

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    • Inspiring?

      I listened to the authors show once. It was bizarre. The presenter was having a hissy fit as some lad asked her where she was originally from. Which she wasnt happy with as she is an Irish citizen and claimed to be as Irish as the rest of us. The lad was called a racist for asking her where she is from!

      Yet, here she is celebrating being an immigrant again and earns her coin by joining the “diversity training” gravy train.

      How does a non EU migrant get a work permit to work as a KP btw?

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  • Nice story.

    I think foreigners integrate better in Ireland than in some other countries. I believe this is partly because of the natural curiosity of the Irish people. I think we have a genuine interest and can appreciate the difficulty of being a migrant due to our own history with emigration.

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  • There is no doubt Dil brings with her an excellent attitude and approach and by her own admission Ireland has offered her alot, but at the risk of sounding like a bit of a stick in the mud, I think her quest for equality can sometimes cloud her judgement some-bit. I listen to Dils show and yesterday was pretty disgusted to hear Pat McDonagh making pretty ignorant remarks re immigrants and the social welfare system. However, I sometimes believe Dil conveys the immigrant network to be holier than the holiest, which is grossly infactual. There is no doubt that some immigrants target Ireland for our social welfare system, but this is a small %. It’s a fact that cannot be disputed. The sooner Dil accepts that in her conversation the better for the conversation on a whole. Irish nationals are defrauding the system too, so I cannot see how that is attacking immigrants when a fact is stated. Other than that, and how Dil remarked on a Dub getting grief in Kerry cause of his GAA jersey, I like the show. GAA jerseys bring with them stereotypes, but it is all banter and clean fun. Let’s not sterilise the entire world please!

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    • Aleo 27/05/12 #

      Do Pat McDonagh’s remarks necessarily reflect Dil’s opinions?

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    • No what Pat McDonagh said was in direct competition with Dil’s thoughts. Pat was saying that well over half of all immigrants were claiming social welfare which is just wrong. However, Dils conversation is led by a rhetoric that ALL immigrants are the same as she, which is not the case. Some do come here to defraud, that must be accepted, whilst bearing in mind that most are decent honourable hardworking folk! But switching from one extreme to another is not a balanced argument IMO!

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    • I think her point was more that she represents the vast majority of immigrants, rather than all of them, and so policy should be less orientated on the idea that most of them are here to suck Ireland dry.

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    • Perhaps Nick, that could be illustrated a bit better by Dil so? It wasn’t apparent on the show yesterday and is not apparent now? I don’t want to seem overly critical, and I know I probably sound it, however, as Dil well knows words or lack of them can often isolate people. Generalisations are damaging, isn’t that Dils whole argument? Yet her point seems to be a generalisation of another type?

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    • I understood it differently than you did, but I think it would be really helpful for people to understand exactly what immigrants are entitled to (non-EU ones cannot claims any form of social welfare) and the statistics about the fact that frankly, the average foreign worker contributes quite a bit more to the economy than they take out of it.

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  • I’m sure the 6 ladies on the buses with the masturbating migrant are just mad about immigration .

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  • Good on her that’s what Ireland needs getupandgoers

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  • 17% non irish born,and thier offspring would bring them close to 50% of the population,that sounds way off.

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    • I am sorry we’re polluting you pure race with our offspring.

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    • yeah, right….American, English or French offspring is o.k., but other nationalities are not welcome here, is this what you mean? For me it looks like selective racism or something…many Irish people claim that they are not racist, only as long as you are white and can speak fluent english…

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    • As long as enter the country the legal way I dont care what colour you are.As far as I know certain countries in the euro zone can enter Ireland and work here,as for the people from other parts of the world,are they coming here on temp working visas ?I see large african,chinese and brazilian communitys setting up here, how is our immirgration dealing with these numbers and the ammount we let in and who we dont.

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    • 1) I agree with you that illegal immigrants are the problem, I don’t like them either
      2)I don’t know what is the story with people from outside EU, what visas are they getting and how immigration is dealing with them; speaking of Brazilians – most of them come here only or 6 months to study English, they have student visas, which allows them to work part-time only

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  • I would like to know what the percentage of new immigrants are in prison.The vast majority of immigrants come to work and work hard but let’s not look at it with tinted glasses a lot our scammers Come too ,or do we not read the papers.Driving can be a nightmare with F Nationals harassing to clean the windows.Every bridge in Dublin has a F N begging.Remember when the smog over Iceland stopped a lot of F N getting back to collect their dole.Let’s be realistic we have also imported a lot of not so nice people as well and time will tell.

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  • Despite failing almost everywhere in the world, Ireland bounded naively into what some call ‘multiculturalism’.

    Is it time to now stand back and review the impact of the significant and indiscriminate immigration ?

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  • Intergrate is that what you call moor st and parnell st and other places in Dublin don’t know what city your thinking but it’s nit Dublin to the comment above

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  • I love how folks get so uppity about people coming into Ireland and choose to ignore how many Irish people have left these shores to seek a better life. Those people on the Famine ships should have been left to drown, the dirty spongers …. I am not blind to the fact that some people do want to defraud the system, but it’s not like us Irish people are angels abroad – just ask the Aussies dealing with the drunken Irish louts in Perth of late. Better yet, ask the decent Irish people over there how they feel being tarred with the same brush. Hold the mirror up to yourselves, why don’t you?

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    • Listen deidre,there is no statue of liberty in dublin bay asking for the poor and and unwanted to come and make ireland their home o.k.Do not insult the irish that went abroad to work hard and make a better life for themseles to the bunch of scroungers and layabouts that ireland seem to have got a large percentage of.As for the aussies,the have to be glad that irish are spending their hard earned money in the pubs and club,not to many irish claiming welfare down there..Their money goes back into the australian economy.Unlike all the money the eastearn europeans send home to their countries,is it any wonder irelands broke.So there is something to think about in your leafy suburb with your made up irish name…

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    • veloc123 29/05/12 #

      Deirdre O’Polski more like it…

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  • Dil, we’re very luck to have you.

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  • And Journal, can you please sort your software to recognise the fada in my name – it’s Uí not UA. Talk about discrimination :p

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  • Congratulations Dil I think we should get you to run the department of finance.
    We would be the wealthiest country in the world in no time

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