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Column: Celebrity culture is becoming toxic and leading us to set impossible standards

We have developed a culture that polices people’s behaviours mercilessly and where loud, vocal hatred of something is often more acceptable than liking it. Grace Duffy explores what affect this has on society.

Grace Duffy

A FRIEND OF mine once told me that he’d been a Liverpool fan in his youth, but since becoming a sports journalist he’d developed a neutral outlook on most clubs. I’ve often found myself wishing that this was true of other writers. I write about pop culture – films and music primarily – and over the past few years, I’ve become increasingly struck by the level of hatred hurled at figures in the public eye. People such as 22-year-old Twilight actress Kristen Stewart seem to attract witless jeers from all corners of the media, something which came to a head for me when I read countless tweets viciously rebuking her appearance (on crutches, no less) at the Oscars.

Public scrutiny of celebrities is hardly a new phenomenon, but it seems in recent years to have become much more ingrained and bitter, to the extent that one’s very personality becomes a target. Such pernicious behaviour illustrates, in stark terms, the toxic state of celebrity culture today and the way in which we interact with it.

A culture that polices people’s behaviours mercilessly

The modern-day backlash has its roots in celebrity scandals of yesteryear. Elizabeth Taylor was one of the first paparazzi targets in Hollywood, scorned by her peers for her perceived thieving of Eddie Fisher from golden girl Debbie Reynolds. Similarly, Ingrid Bergman was shunned for sullying her purer-than-pure image by having an extra-marital affair and baby with Roberto Rossellini.

It would be easy to think that these controversies are representative of the social mores of the time, but in many ways they linger today. Consider the stigma that’s still attached to Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie’s relationship, or even the suggestions that Beyoncé’s baby bump was artificial and that she’d used a surrogate to have her daughter. It is the highly public nature of this media scrutiny, more so than anything the stars have done, that’s problematic. We’ve developed a culture that polices people’s behaviours mercilessly. We may not be obliged to like or approve of someone’s actions, but we are so swift to condemn that we don’t seem to notice the effects of such negativity. Loud, vocal hatred of something is often more acceptable than liking it. As Fall Out Boy singer Patrick Stump recently put it, “We’re so busy broadcasting our latest cultural disdain that we scantly notice anything we enjoy […] We derive our own identities from the act of hating.”

Setting impossible standards

Much has been made, for instance, of the fact that Stewart “doesn’t smile” and often appears uncomfortable in public. Rooney Mara was also criticised for acting like her press appearances in support of The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo were “a chore.” It seems fair to expect actors promoting a film to appear courteous and professional, but it is patently unfair to condemn someone for not always being comfortable or confident enough to act perky in front of the assembled media hordes. There’s a drastic difference between shooting a film in a controlled environment and facing a baying mob of photographers at a public event. The latter situation is stressful and could easily knock someone’s composure, yet our reaction is more often than not to mock and deride.

You may be irritated by someone, dislike them as an actor or a singer or disapprove of something they’ve said or done. You’re entitled to feel that way. But are you entitled to viciously belittle someone because they don’t have a megawatt smile plastered to their face all the time, or because they’re nervous? Does this not feed a much more pervasive and perverse form of public scrutiny, one that places an impossible standard on people who are just as human as the rest of us?

Victim-blaming culture

It’s easy to overlook, especially due to their success, looks, or wealth, the fact that celebrities are people. We are essentially casting our negative eye upon ourselves. Public figures may have stylists to pick their outfits and publicists to mould their image, but the impossible standards of beauty and perfection to which they aspire stem from the endless harsh scrutiny we place upon them. To slip-up is to become tabloid fodder, something we as consumers contribute to every time we click on a sensationalised headline.

This may seem harmless, but we are feeding a toxic cycle. Every time we send a sneering tweet or comment, we are normalising harsh judgement and extreme reactions. It may not seem it, but there’s not a huge stretch between berating a 22-year-old actress for “not brushing her hair” and targeting someone you know from school on Facebook. To claim it is legitimate because celebrities put themselves in the public eye is an extension of the repugnant victim-blaming culture rampant in our society. Besides, I don’t think anyone asked to have a photographer hanging in a tree outside their house just because they appeared in a successful motion picture.

Criticism can be reasoned, informed, and constructive

For me, personally, I find this disillusioning. There’s nothing I love more than conversation, but it is increasingly difficult to have meaningful discourse in a culture where people are all but pre-disposed to hatred. Criticism is a necessary part of discussion, but only where it is reasoned, informed, and constructive. Idealistic as it sounds, I would rather focus on people’s artistry than their appearance, and not have to grimace at the thought of the comment section (“boiling seas of acid,” as Stephen Fry put it) before I’ve even finished reading the article. Mob mentality in public opinion may not be anything new, but it often feels as though we build people up just so we can tear them down.

Grace Duffy is a 24-year-old UCD Law graduate. A press assistant at the ECJ by day, she also writes about pop culture for Under the Gun Review and Filmoria.

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Comments (64 Comments)

  • Its usually girls affected by this celeb rubbish so its up to us parents to not normalise this sort of obsession.
    We need to raise our kids with more value in themselves that way, they wont spend their time wondering that ‘famous’ people are up to.

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    • Agreed. And a big step towards that is just not buying or having in the house those vapid magazines full of celeb (non) stories and ‘my cat’s anorexia hell’ exclusives that sell like hotcakes.

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    • Tommy C 16/03/13 #

      Absolutely Katie. My missus and I dont buy those sort of magazines and we certainly wouldnt be encouraging people to bring them into the house. Must be difficult though for girls who arent into that scene yet when they go to the hairdressers, theyre bombarded with it everywhere! The other half brings a book to her local salon so shes not tempted to flick through one of those mags. Sometimes, women are each others worst enemies.
      I think a lot of corporations and businesses just look at women as cash machines and so prey on their insecurities.
      Kids need to learn that those in the public eye for whatever reason, especially actors etc are just there because they got lucky unlike sports stars who really have to work to be at the top of their game. They are all just people. No one is unimportant but famous people are no more important than the rest of us.

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    • While I agree with you in part Tommy, I wouldn’t be inclined to dismiss all actors, some are exceptionally talented and have worked hard to get where they are. It’s a very low paid profession for the vast majority, and passion, drive, hard work, commitment and talent are needed to succeed. It must frustrate some actors to see others walk into parts just because they’re famous for something else, or appeared on a reality show. Either way, neither should be subjected to the kind of derision that abounds nowadays. If people don’t respect celebrities or agree with the culture it promotes, they should just opt out in the manner you describe rather than engaging in negative, disrespectful behaviour towards them.

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    • Really brilliant actors are few and far between but its not the really talented ones who are being papped all the time and its not them that the titilation type stories are written about. Theyre much more private than the type of people this article is about.

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    • I think the article is about celebrity culture and our responses to it, not particular categories of celebrity. There are plenty of supremely talented actors that have been subjected to stalking, derision and intrusion. It seems nobody is immune these days. I take your point though, those who are more private tend to attract less interest as far as tell all stories go, and tend to command more respect as a result. Those who sell every aspect of their lives to remain in the public eye tend to attract disdain. I still maintain that if you don’t want to partake, don’t, and if you do, do so with decency.

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    • Very well said Doll. And we’ve all been guilty of it at some point.

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    • Its simple…ignore them and they will go away

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    • gabriele 17/03/13 #

      They tell you what shampoo to use , what fashion to wear and what it takes to look like a celebrity and most fall for it. Be honest , when did it start that girls “NEEDED” a Vuitton Bag or “Ray Bans”…the mighty $ must rule

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    • gabriele 18/03/13 #

      It starts at home, teach your children whats important

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  • Like “Kerry katona…Im in love again & this time its for real” on the cover of now,ok, take a break. I don’t care, i really really don’t fing care.

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  • Exactly!! The stories he talks about are putting me off buying papers cause they’re not real stories!! Bring back old journalism!! Real stories not celebrity BS

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    • @diarmuid. A hankering for the old journalistic ways would bring a paper out every 3 days, it would be 8 pages max and full of ads! It would have financial, political and ‘home interest/feel good’ news. Then tides, weather, tv guide and ads! Even the FT relies on a bit of office/market gossip/anecdote to fill it’s pages.

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    • Its better than the BS about celebrities that nobody cares about!! Why would the world care about so call celebs who make an ejit of themselves on tv and the only reason their celebs is cause their on tv!! Get real… The uk papers, you can’t read them there gone so bad the irish ones are heading that way!

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    • John 17/03/13 #

      There’s a reason papers are filled with so much celebrity pap – people buy them. Why do you think the Sun sells far more copies than the the Times?

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  • A bit like Ghandi, made one good film and then suddenly a household name.

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  • I feel a lot of sympathy to those in the public eye. Yes, so you make a lot of money, but there are actually more important things in life than the bank balance.. Being able to walk out of your house and go to the shops or call in to a friend on a whim without being harassed is something we never give much thought – but a celebrity can never do.
    If you get famous, your mistakes – each as painful or embarrassing as they are, are there for all to see, to point and laugh.. It must be so difficult, so lonely, and so stressful. It’s no wonder so many turn to drugs and alcohol (although sadly by then they seem obsessed with selling their redemption story – seemingly oblivious to the notion that it was this intrusion on their personal lives that led them down that path to start with)..

    It is indeed toxic.. Artists, actors, musicians – should be respected for their talents, their lives should be their own. The culture of celebrity is one that never needed to be.

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  • random 16/03/13 #

    Mob mentality may not be new, but it has never been so easy to connect with the mob and contribute to its mobness. Yay technology?

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  • I am constantly amazed at how ridiculous some peoples view of the world is. I’ve heard women say how awful it is that celebrities get plagued by the media, saying this while holding a magazine they bought with a photo taken by a pap on the front. I really feel for the children of the future, what a daft section of our culture.

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  • I hate celebrity culture

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  • This was so wonderfully written. It is clear the 24 hour social media cycle has turned into a 24 hour hate cycle. The faceless, sneers and jeers and hate filled rants over Kristen Stewart have been crossing keyboards in dozens of countries since 2008 in a fairly regular cycle. The past year they triple timed, people have alot of courage when they are sitting at their keyboard and they don’t have to see the emotional response of a human affected by their actions. I fear the future and the apathetic children we are raising. When they are placed in front of an electronic device at 3, what are the chances of learning the nuances of empathy, the inner locus of control. Do we teach the “text” is mightier than the sword?

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    • gabriele 17/03/13 #

      if you are a Teacher , a Doctor, a Banker or whatever ,you know what you step into and adjust or try to do your Job. If you are in the public eye where millions of People follow you because they admire your craft and expect you to be a Role Model you pay for that life style, average Joe wishes to obtain. Don’t cry “foul” if it doesn’t work in your favour . Kristen Stewart was seen as the perfect young rebellious young star , perfect life , perfect BF and while we all should understand that she is just a regular human being , lucky enough to get cast in a Teenage franchise , the wake up call, that she of all, would do the ultimate betrayal against a wife and children made us all into Judges. Everybody suddenly had an opinion ( me included) like it matters. Twilight portrayed for young people the ultimate love story of an average girl , givig up life to be with the “love “of her life ( shudder) . Why does Stewart and Pattinson need to shed their Bella and Edward image. It was just a movie , its not them…but this is how we see them. But thanks God , if you can’t carry the load , you can take another route

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  • The main problem is that it is lazy journalism that has been feeding this monster for years.

    Any chance of an actual news story?

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  • Those Geordie Shore, TOWIE and Kardashian loving useless layabouts are to blame

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  • Great piece Grace.

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  • Who feeds this.. The media or public who might demand this idiotic information.. The vacuous nature of these people is seemingly celebrated and established as an objective and a goal..where is the celebration of intelligence, humanity, humility and quest for something greater than number of friends on Facebook

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  • Might it not be that these so called celebrities do not deserve this title !

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  • My beer fear just got ten times worse.

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  • iohanx 17/03/13 #

    It’s all about the money. On both sides. Too many journalists eeking out a living and too many fools wanting fame for money. They both feed off each other, need each other and hate each other. Nothing scientific about it. Move on.

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  • If people didnt buy into it there wouldnt be a problem. Remeber they get money for nothing by the public. People in ireland arent that into it compared to the brits

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    • So because “they get money for nothing by the public”, this entitles people to demonstrate inexcusable behaviour and to act as if they somehow own them? I’m afraid that’s not acceptable. People saying ‘they put themselves out there’ is a feeble and baseless justification for derision.

      The split between so called merit based celebrities (actors, musicians etc) and the relatively new breed who are famous for merely being seen (reality show stars, wags etc) appears to attract different reactions. The former are more respected, the latter derided. I agree that the public’s relationship with celebrity culture is increasingly toxic, and social media gives people 24 hour access to them. Some of the things I have seen sent to celebrities online are staggering. As the article says, what’s the difference between bullying a non-celebrity and a celebrity? None.

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    • Irish people are into it as much as the brits, there’s just fewer of us.

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    • If your sole income is from being in the public eye then yes.

      I honestly thought we were as bad until i moved over to england, theyre celebrity mad here.

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    • Just to clarify, are you saying that if your sole income is from being in the public eye then people are entitled to send you insulting messages, deride and mock you and believe they own you? This is an extremely problematic outlook and a worrying trend. What about humanity and respect for our fellow human beings?

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    • Self-dislike can fuel alot of the bile you see directed at celebs or even a neighbour. Low self worth or feelings of inadequacy vocalised as hatred, jealousy or intolerance. Sad.

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    • Yes RP, that has an awful lot to do with it. Feelings of inadequacy combined with a culture of entitlement makes people frustrated that they’re not in the public eye or in possession of the associated wealth, and the celebrity therefore becomes a target of envy and jealousy rather than respect and admiration. Even “ordinary” people who manage to become “elevated” to celebrity status are rarely congratulated for it. Attitudes to X-Factor contestants are clear evidence of this. Even if people are delighted for them initially and acknowledge their talent, within weeks the associated “back to stacking shelves” comments are out in abundance. It is sad.

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    • Again if their sole income depends on public image then yea. Remember the journal article last week about the forgotten?
      Im sure paris hilton wouldnt have even been on anyones radar but for the sex tape and then she cries about it. How many other ‘celebrities’ are similar?

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    • Are you referring to “12 teen stars you thought would be famous forever”? Not sure what the point you’re making is. They are all actors with varied careers, and if we’re still talking about them, I would argue that their fame lives on.

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    • But that’s the thing I couldn’t remember the half of them and wouldn’t have unless for someone bringing them up

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    • I don’t get why that’s relevant to the argument though. So they were well known at one point and aren’t as well known now, or not known at all to some. All it demonstrates is the potentially transitory nature of fame, nothing more, nothing less. Maybe they decided to walk away from it and have their own business, or are bringing up a family. What does it matter? We don’t own them and they don’t owe us anything. They’re just people like you and me.

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    • Toki I don’t give a feck about them but when they tip off photographers that they’ll be on a beach in Spain for a bit publicity then and then cry that they’re hounded by they public I say f#ck em.

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  • PS. Not bashing the journal, I love the journal.

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  • In my opinion men seem to know a lot more than they let on about celebs, something I picked up on, I think a lot of this is because in general males buy red top newspapers which always have the latest celeb gossip on every 2nd page. I used to wonder how men knew more than the women on a night out about the latest celeb break up or whatever. I remember when the late Katie French died most of my friends hadn’t a clue who she was

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  • You say that celebrities don’t ask for a photographer to be hanging in a tree outside their house but want about the likes of the Kardashians and countless others who gladly welcome an entire film crew into their lives for the sake of entertainment. Can they really be annoyed when they are directly feeding the attention in themselves ?

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  • Anyone’s opinion that people are somehow shockingly changing for the worse in the last few years always amuses me.

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  • It all started when the Internet became this faceless society

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  • I love the way the cool people complain about shallow celebrity culture but seem obliged to defend a personal attack on stupid tabloid readers.

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  • May I respectfully suggest you proof-read that first paragraph for basic spelling errors!!!

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  • No shit!

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  • This author and her kind are exactly the ones who create and define this culture. Ridiculous article.

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  • Watch the documentary Starsuckers. It is not the public who ask for this info on celebrities. It only works to serve the celebrity. Without the publicity they are no longer a celebrity.

    As for the public, most people have no interest in anything really. They claim to have an interest in music, or film, or fashion but really their taste in everything is decided at some board meeting 2 seasons before and spoon fed to them. For these people pop culture covers all these bases.

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