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Column: Stay positive, keep moving – the advice YOU gave me

Two weeks ago, Liam Horan wrote about going back to college after 26 years – and the response he received in comments, emails and calls displays the positivity and courage of many people finding their way through the recession.

Liam Horan

TWO WEEKS AGO, Liam Horan wrote about being back in college after a 26-year break. The article generated a huge response, not least from people who found themselves in the same boat.

Liam writes: It felt like my article of a fortnight ago turned over a stone – and out came dozens of people with a similar story to tell. Waffler started the feedback – defeating any negative connotation inherent in his Journal handle – by telling us he was back in college the following week “at age 35, after being made redundant in August.”

Jason Spratt, 37, “started back to college about five weeks ago” and found it “a bit strange at first.” Mary Frain “went back at 50, following redundancy” and is now in her Honours Degree year and hoping to continue. “Sure it is tough financially, but it is liberating, self-affirming and brilliant for confidence… best decision I ever made.” Siobhan Breen also labelled it “the best thing” she has ever done.

In total, 49 people commented, and, almost without exception, the contributions included back-to-college tales and/or words of encouragement to those who had gone back or were thinking about going back.

So why did so many come out of the woodwork to share their stories and encourage one another?

Was it really about going back to education – or did it tap into something deeper? Perhaps it touched on the determination many people are now showing to get through this recession?

Emails I received would support this contention. Award-winning photographer David Walsh, 45, a former colleague of mine from Mountbellew, Co Galway, wrote to say how he has recently taken to learning Spanish – at home. He wrote:

I bought a Spanish language book many years ago and every time I moved house, I brought it with me, but I had never got beyond the second page. Then, recently, when I had time on my hands because work is much quieter now, I took out the book again – and I started learning it.

What inspired me was the fact that a second language could be a help to me somewhere down the line, maybe in a sales or marketing role in an Irish-based business that exports or deals with suppliers overseas. I notice more and more employers are listing a second language as a job requirement.

It certainly won’t be a burden. Learning Spanish is something I can do, without having to incur cost, and it has given me a great boost to be doing something positive that might stand to me again.

Another man, Paul O’Neill, got in touch to say he had placed an advert in his local paper last week, after six months of unemployment. In it, he announced his availability for placement on the National Internship Scheme (JobBridge). He said:

I outlined how I had management experience, including six years managing a golf club/tourist facility, and I just want a chance to get back on the ladder. I can help a company grow its business. I have got some replies, and I expect to be soon taking up a placement that will get me started again. It felt good to place the advertisement. It felt like I was taking control. If you had asked me five years ago if I could ever see myself taking such a step, I’d have laughed at you.

But you do what you have to do. I know many people have a problem with the National Internship Scheme, but I am prepared to do a placement if I feel I can learn from it, develop my skills, and prove my worth.

In the article two weeks ago, I referred to a man who closed down his family business after 25 years. I didn’t name him. After he read the piece, Michael Baynes said he wanted to come out from behind the veil. He said:

Part of the process of rejuvenation is letting people know that you’re changing – and that you’re doing well too. I closed down the business which had been in my family for generations, but I got great support from my family. I went back to college. My wife supported me. We don’t have bundles of cash. It’s amazing how you can learn to shrink your living costs to cope with losing one income in the house. When you put your mind to it, you discover great resources within yourself.

Michael is in the final year of his Honours Business Degree at GMIT, Castlebar, Co Mayo, and is adamant it has “given me a fresh hunger for business.”

He added: “I’m 45 years of age, and I have a great deal of business experience. Taking out a few years to study has given me a fresh perspective on life, and I am very enthusiastic about the future.”

He’s nursing a new business idea, and is starting to navigate the funding options. “I am happy to tell my story now, even though I haven’t become a business success yet. But that’s not really the point: the point is to encourage people not to give up, not to believe all they’re reading in the media about the country being dead on its feet. Stay optimistic,” he said.

Liam Horan runs www.SliNuaCareers.com, a career training company providing CV preparation, interview training, mock interview, and psychometric testing services. He will be contributing a regular column dealing with career issues. If you have any topics of questions you’d like him to deal with, email him on liam.horan[at]slinuacareers.com

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Comments (16 Comments)

  • Back in College (3rd year) at 42, left school at 18, have worked in same job ever since, it has been great to start learning again, i would highly recommend it, I don’t think i would have applied myself to yhe same extent if i had went to college at 18. At the tome i struggled to pick 1 course that i was interested in, Now there are so many subjects that i would love to learn more about.

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  • I enjoyed both of your articles here.
    When I was 25, I attempted to go to college having left school at 15 (ok, I was thrown out for being a complete dick).

    In June of 2001 I went for an interview in Carlow IT. I was basically told that there wasn’t a hope in hell of me getting a place because of the lack of a Leaving Cert.
    I argued my case, but the interviewer was insistent that there was no place for me there.

    Two or Three weeks before the course was due to start I received a letter stating that I had been granted a place on the course of choice.
    I was entitled to grants and such, but because I didn’t think that I was going to be accepted, I didn’t apply for them.

    My job at the time paid £20 a day, so I wasn’t exactly flush. Would have got more from the dole.

    I tried to get grants and such during the first week there, but it was not to be.
    I had to drop out before I even began.

    I do intend on applying again when I overcome my current illness, and your story has spurred me on.

    Kudos to you, and please excuse the narcissism.

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  • There has been a noticeable increase in mature students at third level this year. As a result there is a greater spread of knowledge and experience at lectures and tutorials, and the learning environment is improved for everyone.
    The term Lifelong Learning may well be hackneyed by now but the underlying concept is irrefutable. When we stop learning we stagnate – we are doomed to repeat the well-worn patterns of our lives. The key to change and development is learning, whether it takes place in a formal environment or not. However, change does not come easily – it disturbs the familiar and can be frightening. At worst it induces paralysis.
    That is why education is such an emotive topic. Those embarking on the journey of discovery have no guarantees about where they will end up. Mature students become vulnerable again. None of likes to be in a position of uncertainty, particularly if we have already experienced confidence in ourselves and perhaps authority in our careers. But the prize can be beyond measure as described by some of those who commented on this article and the previous one. I have the greatest of respect and admiration for those who take up the challenge of education later in life. Not only do they reaffirm the human need for knowledge and wisdom they also bring a wealth of experience to share with their peers in the classroom.

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    • John
      What’s wrong with soul craft, articles likes this glorified academia and turns people’s fears and aspirations into money making education rackets….please wake up and smell reality

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    • Whilst Johnny Zillion might be a bit militant in his anti-academia stance he does have a point about there being an industry of selling the dream of qualifications. If people are interested in learning there are great free resources online see ocw.mit.edu self learning isn’t for everyone but people shouldnt be obsessed with the paper qualification.

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    • Wikipedia has made University education all but pointless.

      ;)

      Johnny Zillon, I have to disagree with you there. There’s more to third level education than that. Though your point about the “money making education rackets”… lately there has been a turn towards getting students “ready for industry”, which involves cutting back less capitalist-friendly courses. So that is something that needs to be fought. At its heart, though, university education is a good thing. We just need to fight to keep it in our corner, rather than corporate management’s.

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  • Best of luck, Liam. There’s plenty of mature students in my own course and they’re legends

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  • I don’t know – have thought of it but am not able to find a degree that would play to my strengths and guarantee employment. I would have prefered to go while I was working as learning is more meaningful when applied to your practical activities but there is no assistance for working people to better themselves no matter how low their wages. Going to college means hanging on the dole for a year waiting to qualify for grannts.

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  • This us all qualification inflation stuff, get out there and do something creative, instead of giving your money to two bit colleges that give qualification that at the end of the day will be worthless

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  • I would love to be positive but I’m a pessimist.

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  • I am looking to do a degree in fine art or something similar , there seems to be a lack of those type courses here in the republic

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