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Column: My son has epilepsy and stigma still surrounds the disease

Today marks European Epilepsy Day, a disease which is still underfunded, understaffed and underdeveloped in Ireland, writes John Verling.

John Verling

WHAT IS EPILEPSY? For one thing, it’s not the “falling down” disease of ‘grand mals’ that is still very much associated with the condition. It’s a complex neurological disorder that very little is known about, even by those treating it.

Epilepsy only becomes apparent when a seizure occurs but there are many different seizure types reflecting the ways that epilepsy affects the brain. If you have epilepsy, you tend to have recurring seizures and about 1 in 130 people have it in some form or other. That is a lot of people.

Maybe it’s because there has been a stigma about epilepsy for so long that it doesn’t get mentioned as often as it should. Not so long ago people were sent to mental institutions as a means of dealing with epilepsy. It seems unbelievable now, but that used to happen.

Stigma

The association of being possessed by the devil still lingers in parts of Tanzania and West Africa. Many people who had epilepsy tried to hide ‘the shame’, a move that probably added more to the stigmatisation than any other prejudice. Many famous people have had epilepsy, some were born with it others acquired it later in life. Among the names on a long list are Julius Caesar, Neil Young, Prince and many, many more.

Because it is possible to deal with epilepsy and live a somewhat normal life, it may not be taken as seriously as it should be. My son Freddie has intractable epilepsy, it’s not responding to medication and so his life is very curtailed. He can’t go to school, go anywhere on his own, parties and other occasions are not possible – terrible for a ten year old.

Freddie was diagnosed when he was six years old. At least his condition was confirmed when he was six. In fact, he’d been having seizures since he was nine months old. Initially they were being put down as febrile convulsions, a not too uncommon reaction in children to high temperatures. Whether all his seizures were due to febrile convulsions or they were all epilepsy we’ll never know.

What we do know is that epilepsy services in Ireland are underfunded, understaffed and underdeveloped and probably the only thing they aren’t ‘under’, is ignored. One would imagine that, with the high amount of people suffering in some form or other, more attention would be paid to the services.

A normal life is possible

Recently I was talking with a friend whose daughter has epilepsy. She has had great difficulty in keeping a full-time job. Very difficult to prove active discrimination but yet as soon as an employer is told of her condition she finds contracts are not renewed. On the other hand, a close friend, also with epilepsy, works for Apple and the care he gets is excellent. That is the nub of the argument for me, epilepsy, once controlled, is possible to live with, it is possible to have a normal life.

This brings us nicely to the major problem for people with epilepsy in Ireland. The services provided by the health services are not good enough. The recent case in Cork, where a new epilepsy unit at Cork University Hospital, which monitors seizures remains closed, highlights the problems that my family have encountered. The service is stretched, underfunded and understaffed. It’s simple medical practice – you diagnose the problem, discover its source and try fixing it.

With epilepsy, the important thing is the diagnosis. It’s obvious when someone is having a seizure; once they have two or more it’s more than likely epilepsy. That is when you need the monitoring. Monitoring helps confirm diagnosis, where the problem is starting in the brain. Once you have all the information, and it may take time, you decide on the appropriate medicine or if surgery is an option. Finding the source is vital; medicines only work on certain parts of the brain.

Epilepsy units shut

None of this is possible without monitoring. It’s a relatively cheap way of improving somebody’s life – forever. The cost is in the initial build of the unit. The HSE spent €900,000 on two units last year; they still lie empty. It beggars belief that they could spend so much, on something so vital, and then mothball them. It’s like buying somebody a car and then make them crawl on all fours instead of using it.

Luckily, we got the monitoring for our Freddie but only with the help of a close friend. In the Ireland of today, after all we’ve been through, it is still a matter of ‘who you know’ when you need something done. Now, because of the success of the service, we are looking at the possibility of surgery for our little man. It hasn’t been easy. Four years of struggle, ambulance trips, eight different medicines, fortnightly hospital admissions, three moves of house and constant containment, but we’re getting there.

Still nothing has been confirmed, there is still a long road ahead of us but at least we know the road is there now. All of this could have been avoided if a dedicated monitoring unit was available when Freddie’s epilepsy took a turn for the worse. Only when an irregularity showed up on his right frontal lobe was the correct medicine prescribed and the idea of surgery justified.

Not alone

It is certain that my family are not alone in this. We meet people at every clinic, at every hospital visit, who are in the same boat as us.

So much suffering and fear could be avoided for so many people if the HSE provided the services. Many, many people could be living normal lives, going to school or going to work if simple monitoring was available.

Today is European Epilepsy day. For those of us living with epilepsy it is great that awareness is rising but much more needs to be done. For instance, there has never been a public health campaign about how to help a person having a seizure. A simple set of instructions could save someone’s life.

For now – get those monitoring units open and get diagnosing.

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John Verling is a father of three children and is from County Cork. He writes a blog called Verlingsweek. To read more from John for TheJournal.ie click here.

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Comments (24 Comments)

  • Good article John, I have to admit that I knew very little about epilpsy before reading it and always presumed it was a condition that was easily managed with medication, it’s interesting to hear otherwise. I wish Freddie all the best, hope things work out for him in the long run.

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  • I am also epileptic. I had my first seizure when I was 23 due to a severe amount of stress. I was in Australia at the time and the care I received was amazing, checks ups with the neurologists on a regular basis. Constant monitoring. The follow up care was great. I was lucky to be told my epilepsy was very mild.

    Since I came home in 2008 i have seen one neurologist since I have been home. I have had one scan. I am constantly trying to get appointments to be seen. I have had one seizure since the first one. Ibhave been told I will grow out of it but what I want to know is when am I going to be seen?

    I have had a baby since and not one of the drs I was dealing with knew about any affects I might have. In fact when I went into labour the anaesthelogist tried to give me pethadine. Pethadine shouldn’t be given to epileptics because it lowers the threshold for seizures. When I pointed it out to her, she said oh I didn’t know that. Thanks for letting me know. I was terrified enough and that mad me even more terrified. We really need more funding to help drs and care givers know this sort of thing.

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    • I found the brainwave association of ireland absolutly brilliant, gave loads of time to answer questions and were so very helpful. My 25yr old son developed epilepsy almost a yr ago. People do not realise the terrible impact this can have on a person as a whole. As a young adult, his life changed completly it eas a devasting blow for him. Firstly he was not allowed drive, and then he wasnt allowed to continue with his job,because it involved working with machinery on his own. He had only recently started the job, having been out of work for 2 yrs. Someone should please highligh that epeliptic drugs are the only ones that head Of neurology in ireland is campaining for in the change for cheaper medications. He claims that if epiliptic drugs are thrown into the pile as well as every other drug. They should not be included idn the legislation. As peple who suffer epilipsy may end up getting a seizure. if the medication is changed And as i have demonstrated in my sons case, it can be life changing. One seizure in a seizure free year can result in the person not being able to drive for another year.

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    • @ Angela Barrett, I personally didnt find Brainwave much use. Before my first visit to the epilepsy clinic, I attended a general neurological clinic and was very impressed with MS association who had a representative at every clinic who spoke with and advised all of the MS patients there and it was the same support was provided by the Parkinsons charity. I assumed that Brainwave would also have a representative in place for Epilepsy patients – but they didnt. Well, actually, there was someone from Brainwave, once!!. She sat beside the receptionist/secretary and when I said I was there for Dr. Delanty, she introduced herself and told me that if I had any questions to giver her a shout. She then put her head back in the book she was reading.
      I found out more information from doing my own research than I recieved from Brainwave when I was initially diagnosed.

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  • Hi John thanks for your article about epilepsy and the stigma that can surround living with the condition. However I must equally point out the stigma that is attached when a person dies from it. In our son Gary’s case it was from SUDEP he died. Sudden Unexplaine Death in Epilepsy. He was never actually diagnosed with epilepsy because you must have recurrent seizures for the diagnosis to be made, sadly it was the second one that Gary died from while asleep that was May 22nd 1999.
    At the time we spoke to many Doctors about what happened to Gary and one actually said to us ” So long as only a few die from SUDEP why worry people unnecessarily telling them about it “, that really floored us on the day. It is only thru learning about the condition and how to best manage it that people can live a better and safer life. If you would like to know more about Gary our simple website helped us with the healing process after Gary died. Fourteen years later we think about him and how simple his life ended. ……..Thanks again Brendan And Christine For the website just Google The Honourable Gary Somers

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    • Sean I am truly floored by your comment. I am so sorry for your loss and also so angry about the response you got from a medical professional. Truly appalling. My brother had epilpsy as a child, he had petite mal but grew out of it. My mum went through hell to get him sorted out.

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    • Sean, my heart is broken for you and your family. Too many people in this country die of SUDEP with absolutely no realisation (like your family) by the general public that this can happen. Too many sufferers and not enough resources, even during the good times.

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  • marcoop 11/02/13 #

    I’ve only knowingly knew one person who had epilepsy and that was after he had a seizure in our school canteen, everybody remained calm and luckily his father worked in the school at the time so was on hand very quick. He ws never bullied,there was no stigma, he was a popular kid…that was about 17 years ago. What is wrong with people nowadays that stigma is attached to anybody that’s not ‘perfect’?

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    • I haven’t any stigma either to be honest but when it comes to jobs it can be a nightmare. I was refused a job because of it. Now in fairness they were probably right as it involved horses and they were afraid i might get a bang on the head. I think for people who are unable to drive therefore can’t get to work in some cases is where the stigma is attached. Other people perceive them as mentally uncapable of doing anything because of this. Not everyone, just some people. Hence the need for more money for research and for education.

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    • Stigma is not applied because you cant work, it is attached to the illness itself because of the medieval attitudes towards the condition because of the lack of knowledge concerning epilepsy. Brainwave is an ineffective charity – they should have representatives going into schools and giving talks to raise awareness and not waiting for people who are newly diagnosed to get in touch with them looking information.

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  • It’s frightening to hear that there can still be a stigma surrounding epilepsy, and that the healthcare for it is so bad- surely things like this should improve in this day and age? Four people in my family have epilepsy, some more severe than others- I really worry about the youngest one (a cousin age 17) as the type she has is very severe, and it’s hard as she’s just doing her Leaving Cert and trying to start out in work and college; who knows what her future will be, if it doesn’t improve and people still don’t know enough about the condition?

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  • Yes I agree a very good article. The subject needs to be highlighted more and thus people need to educated on seizures and symptoms. It’s all about a basic understanding and acceptance as I do know the observer had a tendency to panic and overact when the come upon a so called attack. Best of luck to all.

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  • I read somewhere today (so as such I can’t attest to its factuality) that 7% of Irish people think Epilepsy is contagious! Was it on this somewhere? Either way, should it be true its quite mind boggling. And I’ve also learned from this article as regards the medicinal side not working for all. Hope services improve for all families involved.

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  • @Marcoop. I think we may know the same person and if so, I have known him all my life and he is one of my closest and dearest friends. He got me fighting fit after my brain tumour and helped me understand my absence seizures.

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  • My son was diagnosed 2 years ago when he was 4 after 2 attacks. We did tests and such in drogheda. The care was good.
    We since moved country twice. The care in the first was non existence but we had regular Meetings with a neurologist.
    Now in china, the neurologist has said he required a 24hr Eeg every 6 months. Only a full 24 hrs can tell them the activity in the brain and will show trends. We had in Ireland a 1 hour EEG in over a year. We had our 24hr last November and due another one in may. We are hoping that he will come off the medication soon.

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    • @ Fintan – 24 hours is not long enough. In Beaumont they take you in for up to 2 weeks, take you off your meds and you are not allowed to go asleep before 3am. They do this to bring seizures on so that they can get proper readings. I was in the Telemetary unit in Beaumont for 10 days.

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  • John, I wish you had given us more detail about what happens to your son or another person having an attack and the different types of epilepsy – the idea of a ten year old not going to school, parties or other occasions does sound extreme – but it is difficult to know if this is the case because you haven’t given details of how epilepsy affects him on a daily basis. While I am sure there is stigma with regard to employment (which is totally unacceptable) I would hope that a school, school friends and family friends with the right instruction would be able to help and manage your son’s epilepsy appropriately which might help him have a more normal and joyful life – depending of course on severity. In saying all this I have no doubt of the debilitating nature of epilepsy, and the fear and difficulties your son and others must suffer. I am glad to see Sean Murphy’s story about his son Gary – I had no idea really that this could happen….It’s very very sad (beyond words really) and I wish it hadn’t happened. I hope that John’s son and other children and adults get all the help they need.

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  • In the 1901 and 1911 census, having epilepsy meant that you were legally defined as a lunatic! I am glad that attitudes have moved on since then. When I was first diagnosed with Epilepsy, doctors said it might be better if I kept it quiet. I chose not to listen to that. I never hid it from friends, family or employers. Secrecy adds to stigma. Why should I hide something that is part of me as much as Asthma and Diabetes is for others? I am lucky. I can drive and work and live a normal life. Yet part of me thinks about those just like me who, last century, would have been locked up as lunatics.

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  • Pls tell everyone with Epilepsy about the SCOAN.
    youtube.com/scoanvideos
    emmanuel.tv

    visit the links to see for yourself.

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  • Epilepsy get cured with minutes, not days or years. If you cannot afford the trip, get in touch with the Church. The Church may even pay for your flight. Any disease at all, including HIV, deafness, cancer, etc.

    Please before making up your mind, open it’

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