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Column: 11 ways to ACTUALLY start a proper exercise regime

More happiness AND a better sex life? Ciara Conlon explains how to make sure your new routine doesn’t fall by the wayside.

Ciara Conlon

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”

- Aristotle

MOST ATTEMPTS AT starting new habits are failures. This is usually because we don’t put enough thought or preparation into creating a new routine in our lives. Here are some simple tools for creating the habit of exercise that sticks.

1. Start with a plan

Decide what you are going to do and when you are going to do it. What exercise are you going to do and when are you going to fit it in to your life. Rather than say 3 times a week say on Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 7p.m

2. Choose something fun

Exercise doesn’t always have to mean running or going to the gym. It took me twenty years to realise I hate both. I cycle, walk and play tennis. You could start a dance class, play football or basketball, try to make exercise playful rather than a chore.

3. Start small

Don’t try too much too soon, if you want to start running don’t head out for a 30 minute run on day one. Start with ten minutes or five minutes running and five minutes walking. By starting small you are more likely to continue.

4. Commit to 31 days

It is said to take between 21 and 31 days to form a new habit and make it part of your life. Commit to doing this new habit for 31 days and you will reap the benefits. Tick each day off on a calendar; it will give you great encouragement to see each day’s achievement.

5. Use triggers to encourage the new habit

Try and do the exercise at the same time every day. You could get up at six am to go for a walk or cycle on an exercise bike. When you get up, go to the toilet and get a glass of water. Do some stretching and get going. If you do these activities in the same way every morning or every evening, your brain will get accustomed to the routine more quickly.

6. Record the benefits

Remind yourself why you are doing it and what are the benefits for you and your life. This should be easy, exercise gives you more energy, it can increase your productivity. It will keep you healthier, happier and slimmer and improve your sex life. Need I say more?

7. Positive talk

Have you ever tried to start the habit of running and spent the time telling yourself how difficult this is, how bad you are and how much you hate running? Anytime I ran I spent the time bombarding myself with negative talk. Observe your mind, make your words more positive and encouraging.

8. Have an accountability buddy

Tell the world what you plan to do and get yourself and accountability buddy – someone who will check up on you regularly and make sure you are sticking to the plan.

9. List the potential pitfalls

Why hasn’t it worked before and what can you do to make it work this time? If you are aware of what can potentially go wrong you can come up with a positive solution to avoid it happening this time.

10. Reward yourself

Reward yourself with your achievements, if you complete a week; make sure you acknowledge the greatness of what you have done. Do something nice for yourself or go somewhere to celebrate.

11. Think you can

You must believe that you can and you will form this new habit. Often we take on board a new habit, and deep inside we don’t believe we will actually do it. Don’t waste your own time – unless you really believe in yourself, don’t bother. Wait until you are feeling more positive and confident in your abilities to change.

Creating the habit of exercise can be easier than you think. Finding the right exercise for you is half the battle. And if you fall down don’t worry, put the past behind you and try again. Believe in yourself, and you can do whatever you want to do.

Ciara Conlon is an author, blogger and productivity coach who writes atciaraconlon.com. Her book Chaos To Control: A Practical Guide To Getting Things Done is available now published by Orpen Press.

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Comments (38 Comments)

  • @Rory For the record Abercrombie have yet to open their store in Ireland, just saying… is you’re girlfriend one of the burly builders…?

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  • ‘A calorie surplus of 3500 to gain a pound’ am laughing away to myself. I smell a ‘gym doctor’ here. You know them, all the answers and technobabble you need to get on the front cover of men’s health haha ‘if you pull this bar sideways it’ll actually make your guts spectre an enzyme that puts you off rashers which is why I look awesome’ haha

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  • ‘Ive a girlfriend who works in Abercrombie’. You clown. I think she needs to go to specsavers. Whilst shes there see if she can find you a pair of mens shades. Some people are ‘addicted’ to food, much like alcohol or cigarettes. They get a bit fat, feel down and go back to their addiction for comfort. It’s a wholesale change in education and attitude that will bring about change. 20 min cardio might work for some but it sure wont for others, there’s no quick fix for it.

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  • Rest assured Rory I have plenty of self respect!!!! Yes I am overweight and yes I do have a gym membership which I use!!! Not everyone is obviously as motivated as you Rory!! Maybe getting up at 5.30am each morning,driving into Dublin City Centre to work in one of the busiest hospitals for hours then to drive home and care for a young family has adequate time to do what you obviously do???? Don’t tarnish obese people with the same brush!!!! Don’t be so narrow minded!!!!! One should wait until they have their own family and see how life changes!

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    • If you work as hard as you say you do then the problem is your diet, if you have self respect you’d make a lifestyle change in what your consuming and maybe you’ll avoid spending most your time in hospital when your older, and I’m not talking about you working in it.

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    • Agree with you Rory, Irish people in general do not look after themselves! We eat and eat, pure crap and do nothing on a daily routine to keep ourselves in shape. It is so different when you go abroad and everyone is normal weight! Too many take aways and too many hot chicken rolls every day for lunch probably do not help! Btw, being over weight is unhealthy and just because you have kids cannot make u overweight :) Kids do not force you to eat crap!!!

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  • Oh I must get off my lazy ass when im finished picking up after my children…. and my fella! Are men exempt from obesity???

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  • obese wimmins coming here, stealing all our food. It’s not right Joe

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  • I’m still in shock after reading there’s 600 calories in a portion of prawn crackers :((

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  • Thanks for the advise. One shall take note of your wonderful expertise!! As it seems you have an answer for everything!!!! As I sign off I’ll pass on some advise of my own. In my 10 years of nursing I can recall hundreds of healthy, fit & active people who have been hospitalised or many that have subsequently died despite their fitness or diet. Maybe we don’t have full control of what the future holds for us!?! I do however understand that it is important to keep fit and be healthy that was never my argument. It was simply that maybe you should refrain from such offensive comments. It’s very easy to pass comment or judgement but be prepared for it in return!

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  • Strange observation Rory, I wanted to say something quite opposite.
    I see so many people around me walking, running, exercise etc. I feel bit ashamed I never do it regularly as I used to. I honestly don”t see that many obese people these days, maybe just bit overweight sometimes. But your rant about body fat level, eating, etc. does not work for everyone, as people have different metabolism levels and different gene pools. I know some people who have fried / fast food EVERY lunch and dinner, no exaggeration, and they’re skinny as rake. I need to watch what I eat all the time for a change as I get bigger right away, while I love many foods and can’t really help it :-) Only serious workout can balance this out for me.
    I bet you are the type who can eat pretty much anything and stays the same weight so it’s easy to slag people :)

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  • 10. Reward Yourself



    Hmmm off to Burger King? :)

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  • If he says we are obese girls then we obviously are! The mirrors have been lying to us all these years!

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  • What a lovely comment Rory!!! I take it you’re single with a comment like that!?!?!? And rightly so too!!! We may not all be as slim as catwalk models but here’s the thing maybe we’re happy in our own skin!!!! People like you make me sick, that you actually think ya have the right to pass comment on others!!! One could search the world looking for perfection but would return empty handed as it does not exist! Maybe think before you speak next time Rory rather than be perceived as a shallow human being!!!! Or is that what you want, attention!?! Get a life!!!!

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    • No I’ve a wonderful girlfriend who has something many women in Ireland lack these days…….self respect. Get off your backsides and do a bit of exercise.

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    • As the oul fella said…. I’m glad I’m perfect!

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    • Yes Rory, of course, weight loss is that simple – what about those people who are unable to exercise to their full capacity due to a long-term injury, what about people undergoing certain treatments in which they have to take massive amounts of steroids which causes massive weight gain, what about young women who’ve fought with bulimia for 20 years and as a result it has messed up their metabolism and their relationship towards food so much they wish it was as simple as a bit of exercise!

      The world isn’t black and white Rory and there’s more to life than image. I know skinny size 8 women with high cholesterol and who smoke 40 a day and drink regularly and never exercise yet society and people like you would view such women as healthier than a curvy size 14 women who exercises regularly and eats a balanced diet. Health over image is the key Rory and to tar anyone who’s overweight as lazy is just pure ignorant!

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  • It’s a battle once u give up the cigs tho, so hard to keep the fab at bay

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  • To be honest I started off earlier trolling for a few red thumbs off women, but on obesity in Ireland It’s a disgrace, takes 20 minutes of cardio a day to keep active. You need to have a calorie surplus of 3500 to gain one pound and that’s a lot of food. It’s beginning in the children in recent times and the excuse is they want to eat bad food. Stop feeding your kids shite and they won’t be puddings and be bullied for it.

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  • Niall F 21/10/12 #

    ‘Secrete’. I hate auto-correct.

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  • Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels

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  • Tell this to all the obese ladies out there, it’s gone shocking lately..

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  • why do I have felling Rory spend more time getting ready for night out than I do. ya PEOPLE are putting on pound but its the life style and ready maid foods Rory just been douch about it. good tips buy way its not easy at start two get in two.

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  • Our country is fecked. Cut child benefit, cut social welfare. Put a charge on water that you cannot drink. A charge on a home we’re never gonna be able to pay for.

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