GARDAÍ ARE ASKING members of the public to be vigilant of romance fraud ahead of Valentine’s Day tomorrow. 

Romance fraud happens all year round and not just around Valentine’s Day, gardaí said, and in 2022, 70% of all victims of romance fraud were female.

Last year €1,958,089 was stolen, up 23% on the previous year. A total of €5,923,869 has been stolen in romance fraud since 2019.

Gardaí said romance fraudsters may try to get their victims to send them money using the following excuses:

• To cover the cost of travelling to see the victim
• For emergency medical expenses, customs duties or other bills
• A business opportunity which would see the victim make a quick profit

There is an ever increasing link between romance fraud and investment fraud, gardaí said.

In many cases, scammers will ask victims to invest in a fraudulent scheme or business.

Such investments ultimately see the funds transferred to the fraudster through a number of linked accounts.

Members of the public are advised to be vigilant as there are huge risks involved in investing in cryptocurrencies and not to share any money with someone they meet through online websites or apps and to get professional and legal advice before investing.

An Garda Síochána said it works closely with Europol to disrupt the activities of romance scammers, particularly organised crime gangs that engage in this type of criminality; as well as monitoring dating sites for this activity.

What are the signs?

Gardaí have said fraudsters will try to:

• Move communications away from dating websites. They suggest that you move to instant messaging, text or phone calls instead.
• Ask a lot of personal questions.
• Avoid answering personal questions about themselves. The details that they do tell you seem made up or do not reflect reality. For instance, they may say that they are university educated, but their spelling and grammar is poor.
• Try to establish a bond quickly. For example, they may give you an endearing pet name e.g. baby, darling, etc.
• Ask for financial help. They may tell you about money problems in the hope that you will offer to help.
• Ask you to invest in a fraudulent scheme or business.
• Never meet you in person. They will present obstacles and may go as far as making arrangements and cancelling them at the last minute. They may promise to want to see you but offer excuses which delay this, such as financial troubles.

What can you do?

Gardaí have said people should use trusted dating websites, not share personal details and not send or receive money. 

They also advise people to think twice before using their webcam and to trust their instincts.

People are asked not pay for medical bills, purchase flights, or visas, pay customs fees or make any payment for them to come to visit.

Gardaí said people should not invest their money in any ‘opportunities’ from someone they’ve met online.

If you believe that you are a victim of a romance scam, or think your identity or personal information has been compromised, you contact any garda station and report the crime.

Gardaí said they will treat all reports in confidence.

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