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Free group support to be offered on World Suicide Prevention Day

Headline statistics reveal that somebody commits suicide every 82 minutes across the UK and Ireland.

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A CHARITY ORGANISATION that offers online support services for people struggling with suicidal thoughts is to offer free group support sessions from midnight tonight.

To mark World Suicide Prevention Day, turn2me.org has arranged for fully-trained psychologists to be available for online group support for 24 hours. Organisers hope that the day will help create awareness of the need for free and affordable support for people suffering with mental health issues.

From midnight, users can log into the site with a self-selected username and can communicate with the group and psychologist in a chat room scenario.

There will be a number of dedicated groups, including suicidally distressed members, concerned family and friends, bereaved through suicide and concerned employers. Each session will last for 90 minutes and run multiple times during the 24 hours.

Promoting finding and supporting ways to lessen the incidence of suicide, World Suicide Prevention Day is now in its tenth year. Currently, someone in the UK and Ireland dies every 82 minutes as a result of suicide. Globally, this reduces down to a person every 15 seconds.

Turn2me.org CEO Oisín Scollard said he would love to be able to provide a similar free services every day of the year but without sufficient funding, it is not possible.

“People like using our service because it is confidential,” he explained. “They can access the site from their mobile, home computer or tablet and because they can get the help they need when they need it and at a time that suits them.”

The organisation said that Monday’s sessions will be about providing an open-ended and emotionally-supportive psychologist, while also giving information on any additional services.

“A balance will be attempted between supporting individuals through exploration of their distress, as well as normalising of members’ experiences and sharing with others in the group,” it added.

Here, one of the site’s users Shone (21) tells her story. She has been using the services for the past three years:

“You could be in a crowd of 1,000 people and still feel alone, but knowing that one person can relate to you, it’s a comfort, a reassurance. Turn2me can, and is, saving lives. It saved mine.”

I joined turn2me is 2009. I was extremely depressed, suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and was suicidal, receiving inpatient care. I was undergoing treatment for my depression, anxiety and other subsequent emotions that all come with PTSD, but felt like I was getting nowhere.

I had support from family, friends and professionals, but Turn2me offered something different. I have always referred to it as ‘my talking diary’. I could write in what was going through my head, but I was also getting a reply! It was so much easier to write my thoughts down than have to try and verbalise it to others. It’s like the barrier that is there when you try to talk, lifts a bit when you are writing, it just flows easier, and because you are anonymous, you don’t have to worry about what people think.

I can honestly say, without a shadow of a doubt, Turn2me saved my life. It helped me to open up more, to take down one or two of the bricks of the wall that I have built up around me. I found myself being strong enough to offer support to others, and not only that, I found that I felt good about giving others support. Feeling good about myself was something I hadn’t experienced in a long time.

If you need to talk to someone you can call the Samaritans 1850 60 90 90 or email jo@samaritans.org, Teen-Line Ireland 1800 833 634, Console 1800 201 890, Aware 1890 303 302, Pieta House 01 601 0000 or email mary@pieta.ie

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Comments (13 Comments)

  • I think it’s a sad state of affairs when this ‘one day of support’ makes headlines.. We need this kind of service available at all times! Suicide is a long term answer to a short term problem and people need a place to turn for help at ALL TIMES

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  • Need to remove the stigma from depression and other mental illnesses. The statistic point to the fact that at some stage in our lives 68% of us will either have a mental issue or encounter it with friends or family (http://www.healthpromotion.ie/hp-files/docs/HSP00612.pdf). More needs to be done to make help freely available. All help services should have free phone numbers. More to be done at school levels to educate kids as to the signs to look out for. It is a sad statistic that one of the major causes of death in young males in this country is suicide.

    We live in a world so interconnected yet many are still alone.

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  • There’s lots of events on this week for Suicide Awareness Week. Check out our site for the big event http://www.thundercatchallenge.com in aid of Pieta House! We also have a table quiz and Paddle for Pieta running alongside this event where everyone can join in to help raise funds. If anyone would like to join in email info@atirl.ie

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  • ********* ANYONE WITH SOME SPARE TIME PLEASE SUPPORT THIS WORDY CAUSE **********

    Would it be possible to find out if Turn2me.org could send information out to all the GP’s offices around Waterford city and the rest of ireland, I think we need to know where to go to get the information on volunteering and show our support for the people in need

    ********* ANYONE WITH SOME SPARE TIME PLEASE SUPPORT THIS WORDY CAUSE **********

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  • A unique charity event is being held in Waterford on November 2nd to raise money for the Samaritans who deal with depression calls daily. The event is called the Bridal Belles Ball. Information can be found on http://www.bridalbellesball.ie and http://www.facebook.com/bridalbellesball

    The idea for the night is to give forner brides, bridesmaids, grooms, debs dates and even some bridal fancy dressers the chance to brush down the old wedding dresses etc. and show them off again. It’s going to be a great night for a very worthy cause. Help spreading the word would be greatly appreciated.

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  • Incredible that our government support the banks and their behaviour plus that of out politicians has led to the highest rise in suicide in Ireland ever. Our kids are killing themselves and yet not enough money is made available to help them. Labour party are finished for their support of the cuts and their behaviour is adding to the numbers taking their lives.

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  • It is really good that people are starting to learn that mental illness is out there and for those of us that do suffer with it really don’t have to hide away anymore. Its a hugh step and its so good to know that when your having a hard time that we can log onto facebook and know that your going to get support and talk to people that are suffering themselves. There is another support group that i have found on FB that have 98.000 members Help reduce suicide, Depression and stress related illness in young adults. Just coz it says young adults don’t mean you have to be young.
    I’m slowly starting to be able to talk to my friends about my mental health that’s to site like these.
    Thank you x

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  • Suicide has become a serious problem in Ireland so days like today + the numerous events being organised across the Country will only increase awareness & literally save lives.

    My brother & I are running the Dublin Marathon this year in aid of Suicide Helpline 1Life + In memory of our Brother who recently passed away .

    If any of ye good folk would like to donate a € that would be much appreciated . All proceeds go direct to 1Life. : )

    http://www.mycharity.ie/event/barry__mark_ryans_marathon_run/

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  • Thank god for so many great Charities out there that are there to support people who are feeling suicidal or subjecting themselves to self-harming. In this day and age it is still a taboo subject and people still think that the issue should just be brushed under the carpet and forgotten about.
    Let’s make a stand and raise the profile this week and show the Government that Mental Illness in this country is still as prevalent as ever.
    We are organising a Charity Fight night in Croke Park on the 12th of October, all in aid of Pieta House. Please follow the link for more details and come along on the night! Olympic medalist John Joe Nevin and Jim Rock will be fighting on the night as well as a host of other guests!
    http://m.facebook.com/error/?err=gf&_rdr#!/profile.php?id=263180760461904&__user=100004010482238

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  • Please ask your TDs to make sure the Government keeps its commitment to €35m for community mental health. Ask them to put in place training programmes in ALL schools on how to look after your mental health. Our statistics of one in three adolescents in mental distress and one+ teenage suicides a month are shocking. Young people want this kind of training in school to help them look after their own mental health and that of their peers. They say they would talk to friends first rather than teachers, school counsellors or therapists and want to do this training in school. We also need community based projects like Jigsaw. This is a national crisis and we must act. http://www.headstrong.ie/sites/default/files/My%20World%20Survey%202012%20Online.pdf

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  • Our ‘mental health’ definitions need revisiting. Take the case of kids ganging up to bully…and creating depression in their victim. Who is the mentally healthy here ??The inadequate thug who boosts hidden lack of self-respect(often because of family bullying or other disfunction)by lowering another, the ‘well-adjusted’ kids who join in the exercise out of fear that if they dont it will be them next(or because they take a perverse pleasure themselves in the exercise of ego-power)..or the victim who’s depression is externally created, and who’s psychological state is a natural reaction to social exclusion??

    I’d say that depression in such cases(far from uncommon)is a positive sign of mental health. Our psychology ‘professionals’(i.e. on the payroll and approved by the pseudo-science of academic psychology)substitute a robust ego for a healthy mentality…the mind is bigger than the ego…
    I grow tired of meeting medicated stoners grateful for pharmaceutical crutches dispensed to immobilise and render them ‘invalid’, when it is our society that is unhealthy in its elevation of dog-eat-dog refined and sophisticated savagery dressed as ‘healthy’ competition into its, literally, mindless, market anarchy. Hence the JRs( I see his televisual resurrection is at hand)of our global Dallas(our own homegrown CJH Gatsby springs to mind), or the cynical professional foulers of our ‘sportsfields’ become models of viable manhood, while those who insist on a grain of honesty or question the ethical foundation of such behaviours are dismissed as wimpish spoilsports. Whistleblowers on corporate or political criminality suffer the same exclusionary tactics.
    I just googled the well known adage…’It is no measure of mental health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society’. Krishnamurti, apparently.

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