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Poll: Should priests be allowed to renounce vow of celibacy?

The former Bishop of Derry, Dr Edward Daly, says that priests should be allowed to marry and mandatory celibacy done away with. Do you agree?

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FORMER BISHOP OF Derry, Dr Edward Daly, has tackled the issue of celibacy in the Catholic clergy in his new memoir.

He has become one of the most senior members of the Catholic Church in Ireland to declare that priests should be allowed to marry. He said that there “should be a place in the modern Catholic Church for a married priesthood and for men who do not wish to commit themselves to celibacy”.

Do you agree with Dr Daly? Should priests be allowed to marry and renounce the vow of celibacy?


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Comments (124 Comments)

  • Without a doubt yes. The whole concept of celibacy is unnatural.

  • The only reason they were made to be celibate was so the church wouldn’t have to pay inheritance to priests wife and children. Greedy cult at work as usual.

  • I’m atheist myself so don’t have any real say in this, I know three very nice priests, two of them are very out going with some good friends and it has often come up in conversation that it must be hard to leave a party and head back to a empty house, if it allows another person to find comfort and love in their lives then so be it, the comments about the child abuse doesn’t belong to this article.

  • I’d say half off them were never celibate anyhow.

  • Yes priests should be allowed to marry. The celibacy law is not in the bible.it was introduced into canon law…by the church hierachy, for what reason I do not know….

    • So that the church wouldn’t have wives and offspring to look after in the event of the death of a priest. They didn’t (and don’t) want to dilute their billions….

    • bren 13/09/11 #

      They had many, many issues – including corruption, whereby a cleric would take on diocesan property, then bequeath to children, they had cashflow issues where a wife/children might need to be looked after if the priest died before the family (which they generally did). Finally, because a Pope said so. And you know the way god loves us so much that he spoke to us relentlessly in a language that only priests could understand…

    • Dont forget, the Catholic Church compiled the Bible and any authority in the Bible is onlythere because of the authority of the Church behind it. Even Martin Luther agreed with that. No Catholic Church, no Bible. An historical fact. That is why it is such an irony for protestants to quote scripture (all Catholic) to Catholics.

    • Irrespective of who compiled it, the Bible has been so roundly abused to peddle hate that I don;t regard it as any sort of authority any more. To me, it’s just a book. The basis principle of treating other people as you’d like to be treated is too deeply buried in there amongst stuff that pre-dates Christ by centuries.

  • vanessa 13/09/11 #

    I read the question at the top of the article and hit "no" based on that where as I should have answered the question at the bottom of the article and hit yes but I can’t change it now so there should be one less no and one more yes.

  • Priest should be allow to marry after all this thing of priest not allow to marry only came about in the 5th century so they could devote themselves to the church and have no distractions, it’s a law of the church not God’s law. I think it’s time the Vatican admit the mistake of the pass and come into the 21st century.

    • I think it’ widely accepted that it wasabout succession rights Eddie. This is how the property portfolio of the church makes the British royal family look like paupers.

  • YES! And while they’re at it, why not allow women to become priests? .

    • One reason and one reson only; Christ chose men.

    • That is a facetious answer, John. And I suppose you’d get your knickers in a twist if someone suggested that the choice implied he was gay.

    • if only men can become priests because Jesus was man then only single celibate men can become priests because Jesus was single and celibate.

    • @Laura: I understand what blasphemy is – and my previous post was not blasphemous. Perhaps you could ponder on the concept of wanton over-reaction. Then find yourself a good chill pill.

    • No implied blasphemy, Laura. And no denial either. “Choose to be damned” Are you for real? So, let me see if I understand you correctly: the all-loving, omnipotent God would “damn” someone to hell for a comment like that? Why do you turbo-powered God-botherers always make out that He is some thin-skinned hypersensative diva with no understanding of the humans He created? He really should sue you lot for sullying His name. The God I love and who created such incredible wonders bears no relation to the tantrum-throwing despot you describe. Thank God!

    • You obviously believe in the fluffy bunny in the sky God. The one true God made his viewpoint on homosexuality clear in Leviticus 18. He said it was an abomination. God Almighty would take great offence to your implication that His Son was gay. That is blasphemy. You will be held accountable for every thought, word and action. Read St Paul’s epistles to the Romans and to the Corinthians. He says “Work out your salvation in fear and trembling”. He also says “Make every thought obedient to the Will of God”. Jesus says “If you love Me, keep My commandments!” None of these quotes give the impression that you are free to make any comment you like about God without paying the price with your very soul. Judging on your previous comments, I fear you do not realise that Jesus IS God. God is all powerful and you should be very careful how you speak of Him.

    • I’m glad you mention Leviticus, Laura. First, it pre-dates the loving Christ by a signigicant chunk of time. Yes, it decries homosexuality as an abomination. However, what you also seem to be overlooing is that it also decries the eating of shellfish as an abomination, WITHOUT saying whether one is a reater abomination than the other. Leviticus would also make it OK for your father to sell you into slaveryand for people to stone to death anyone who wore clothing of mixed fibres. Same punishment for whoever plants two different crops in the same field. The Commandments, oddly, don’t touch on ANY of these proscriptions. I’ll take my “fluffy God in the sky” over any vengeful, spiteful, unloving pain-monger any day. Both Gods know my position on that. I’m confident about taking my chances.

  • Laura, you’re so uneducated about your own religion. The irony is that you tell others what they should believe however, you don’t seem to understand why your religion follows the beliefs it does.

  • In this day and age, if we wants to have enough priests to minister to, and be fully integrated within their parishes,
    I believe that marriage should be optional for priests, as for every other profession/calling in life.

  • That would be an ecumenical matter.

  • Our church leaders should represent the community, male, female, married, single…..a male hierarchy is no longer acceptable in this day and age. The Catholic church won’t survive unless it accepts women as priests and allows priests to marry.

  • Laura…. Chill pill please!!!

  • Couples are still expected to go to marriage classes before their weddings. I’d much rather take advice from someone who has been there rather than be taught about marriage from someone celibate. It should be optional for priests, many might want to stick to the way things are, but I think giving them a choice will attract more people to the priesthood.

    • I think you hit the nail on the head there when you said it may attract more men into the life of a priest. I think that is why the suggestion has been made in the first place….What about all the years gone by when the normal people tried to have this very discussion and were told it was not an option and would not even be discussed. Maybe if the rules were changed years ago and priest could have been allowed marry the church would not be in the position it finds itself in today…….They are trying to do anything now to get people back to the church.

  • A cynic might suggest that they’d have less sex if they were married.
    But this would be an unfair stereotypical remark.

  • well Brendan… I’m delighted that for once some posters here aren’t nutters and are educated in the facts… but “how does that grab ya” invokes a certain mental image given the content of your post. :-)… sorry for being flippant given the topic but it had to be said!!!!!!

  • I have a good friend who became a priest and subsequently one of the youngest ever heads of an order .. He left his vocation over this issue .. As a result the church lost a great and much needed talent ..he is now working in community care with long term unemployed people ..

    As I understand it celibacy is more related to property rights than anything divine .. It’s time to drop the facade if the catholic church wants to be seen as having credibility ..

    Personally I have turned my back on Catholicism in favour of personal spirituality .. We have been very badly let down by the RC church .. Despite having some excellent people in the RC church – the management from Rome to Dublin lacks credibility and desperately needs a big shakeout .. Starting at the very top!

    • There are three main issues here. 1) your friend the ex priest was not cut out to be one. Although good enough to lead a useful life, only God can judge his soul. 2) Celibacy is mentioned in the epistles of St Paul, who spoke about the ‘royal priesthood’, which is a celibate one by inference. Our Catholic Church has chosen a celibate, male priesthood based on the teachings of Jesus Christ Himself; who are we to question that? What’s good enough for the Son of God is certainly good enough for me! 3) Your lapse from your Faith is your concern. You should immediately get yourself to confession and rejoin the one true faith. You will burn in Hell unless you use the gifts given to you by God. You were not accidentally baptised. It was ordained and God has a plan for you. Catholics believe that each of us is a dignified spiritual being, put here on earth to find out and do what God has ordained for us. OK, our Church is going through a bad time right now, but that means that we must fight hard to get things righted. Not leave at the first sign of trouble and throw our hands in the air. Only cowards do this. See Revelations 12 for what happens to cowards.

    • One cannot renounce the complete teaching of the Catholic church because of the sins of some of the clergy – to do so shows you did not fully understand the teaching of the church in the first place

    • Laura, this is not the first sign of trouble! Spanish inquisition anyone?

  • Celibacy is not natural.It does not say in the bible{GODS WORDS}that they should stay this way.how could any religon expect a person to stay this way.god made man and women for that reason to inhabit the earth with thr off spring.IF these people actually read the bible and studied it ,things would be so much better these days .

    • We’d also be stoning adulterers to death and Dennys would be out of business.

    • The Earth is a bit too inhabited at the moment ……
      and there is a lot of stuff in the Bible that would make God a first class nutter if he was responsible for it.
      For a good laugh ask somebody to give you text and chapter from the Bible then check same in another language and cough ! cough! it might be completely different – whose God is right ….. ???

      Just to be a bit obstreperous – pedophiles do not want sex with middle aged women – sorry ladies it’s all about power and young children .
      And being a good catholic meant not reading the bloody bible because it was pornographic and it needed to be interpreted by a priest for us thicko’s ……

  • Totally read it wrong should have voted yes

  • Its 2011 come on people!
    If marriage was allowed I feel the Catholic Church will actually get recruits. There are very few people going for the priesthood for this exact reason. Family is susposidly at the core of the Catholic Church! Let them marry it would save the religion.

    • Why should a death cult that eats flesh and drinks blood be saved ?

    • Married clergy didnt help protestant sects so it wont help catholic church either.

    • Daithi are you a kosher vegetarian or something?

    • No regular meat, veg and potatoes is my idea of heaven. And I don’t need to eat the “body and blood” to get there.

    • I would say that the abuse most priests have to put up with people like those writing in this forum must put good men off the priesthood, choosing to serve God in other ways. However, having said that, there is now a revival, even in Ireland, which was most hurt by the evil predators that succeeded in becoming priests. There is an increase in vocations in most places in the world and those new priests coming through the seminaries are more conservative, ie more orthodox, than the liberals that let the homos in in the first place. We can look forward to a renewal of the one true faith; the faith of our fathers; the faith people died for. How many of the liberal priests among us would die for the faith???? Most liberals believe that they should marry. Be careful what you wish for!!!

    • The hell thing, why are you threatening me?

    • Daithi. I am a humble servant of God. I cannot threaten you with Hell. According to the beliefs and teachings of the Catholic Church and many of the teachings of Jesus, Hell is described well and the sins that merit Hell are listed to a great extent. I am fairly sure that blasphemy against the Son of God would be high on the list of the sins that merit Hell. Me, threaten you? It is not me you need fear, Daithi. It is Almighty God, whom you will meet one day, hopefully after you have confessed such a blasphemy as the one you have committed here and all the rest of your deadly sins. God bless

    • “Humble”? Seriously? Is this satire or something?

  • If the clergy – whether priests, brothers or nuns – were allowed to marry, I think it might actually make the church more family centric. Imagine knowing your priest/brother/nun *really* understood marriage, relationship realities and realities of raising children. Think how much more you’d trust their views, how more measured and insightful their interactions might be? It leads me to a whole other issue: that the church should step away from the schools and encourage families to assume responsibility for the spiritual development of their children. As for the property issue, why can’t priests’ houses be dealt with in the same way as those of married vicars/ministers/rabbis? Oher faiths don’t seem to have succession/property hassles. Removing celibacy from the scenario makes things more honest and humane.

    • Most, if not all priests, have mothers, fathers, brothers and sisters. They are part of a family network. They did not descend from some alien planet with no knowledge of what it is to be a family member. What rot you speak! For a man to choose to be a celibate Catholic priest, he must be called by God Himself! We, as the laity, must encourage and support our priests, not suggest that they all become Protestant vicars!!! Property rights etc do not interest the man who chooses the Catholic priesthood. Think of all the saints that threw away privilege, property and mega riches – St Francis of Assisi, St Clare – to name but two. Is your surname meaningful?

    • @ Cecily.. The Parish priest in my parish is a widdower… went to him about my marraige papers. he was an effin clown. on the other hand, the celibate priest who married us had more understanding of marriage than I thought any person could. in my humble experience, that would blow your arguement out of the water

    • Perhaps…. if we were to judge a concept on the abilities of just two examples. Its hardly exhaustive research.

    • “Is your surname meaningful?” Wow, Laura. How long did it take you to come up with that highly original swipe? Really, brava. You’re wasted here. I’m sure you could give a novice school bully a couple of tips in how to get started. So loving of you, so Christian.

    • Laura, your cover is slipping! From my study of Christianity (albeit only forty years), I don’t think that was what Jesus would say. And the claim of exclusivity as the only “True Christian Church” of the Roman Church is about as correct as Sinn Fein’s claim to be the only true republicans in Ireland.

    • I have to agree with Laura here. All priests have had a mother and a father. I also agree with Cecily. Of course religious sects have no place in education. If parents care that much, that’s what the Sabbath is for, be it Friday (difficult,), Saturday, or Sunday. Just because Rome filled the vacuum left by London in this republic, yes, republic, 80+ years ago doesn’t mean it’s too late to put it right.

  • If my history serves me right, the clergy were not allowed to marry, however, if they were allowed have a housekeeper, (as is still today!), A wife in all but name, any children even though illegitimate, could still inherit, provided they were recognized by the clergymen concerned, and the sin of lust confessed the offending priest !
    this only changed after the split between the roman catholic church, and King henry the 8th. I think that now ,younger priests, are more attuned to modern life, and being able to have a companion and a family would not only give them an even better insight into modern living, it might also encourage those other men who may have strong faith, but don’t want to be celibate, to consider a life in the church , thus boosting the dwindling numbers of new priests. The vow of celibacy can still exist, but only as a personal means of devotion, and not a compulsory one.

    • Aren’t you forgetting all of the sins being committed by such priests? What about deceit, lies, fornication? Remember what St Paul says – do not be fooled, no immoral person will enter into the Kingdom of Heaven. You seem to have a very lax attitude towards morality yourself. Celibacy is not for everyone; only for those who are called to the life of the priest; to serve God in a very unGodly world – this all caused by immorality, greed and people like you who really don’t care about anything and certainly do not believe in God.

  • Really, it should be an option for them. In fact, there’s a fairly good scriptural basis for priests being married. 1 Timothy 3:2, for instance, states that a bishop should be ‘married only once’. The passages cited by the Roman Catholic Church for celibacy (Luke 18:28-30 etc) don’t really suggest an imposition on celibacy to me.

    But what would a dirty Protestant like me know, haha? ^__^

  • Some of them already have.

  • Scrap priests.

  • The question asked in the headline and the question the poll is actually asking are different….

    • Hi Barry,
      Yes, apologies for that – was quickly changed (but not quickly enough!)
      See reply to Vanessa above.
      Sorry again if it caused confusion,
      Susan

  • Ha! The Vatican could never allow priests to marry or have children – it would mean that any property/land/money etc that the clergy had after death would be left to their families rather than feed the greed of the Catholic Church!

  • Aydo 13/09/11 #

    If it gets em off the kids, yes!

  • This really is a question for CAtholics. I don’t consider myself one any more, so I answered I don’t care. Let the church solve their own problems

    • This is Ireland Roos. The church’s problems have a way of becoming ours.

    • Oh, I know, David. I have been living here for over 13 years, and am very involved in local life, and I think I can say I know a little bit about Ireland now. I have my own opinion about celibacy, but because I have given up on the Catholic Church, or any other, I don’t think it’s my place to give opinions on what they should or shouldn’t do.

    • Roos, if you are enjoying life in Ireland, please be aware that the Catholic Church is largely involved in everything cultural about Ireland. Even if it is purely worldly on your part; credit where credit is due. Or is it just that you would find it difficult to say anything good about the Catholic Church?

    • As they say “a closed mouth gathers no foot!”

  • Ramadan 13/09/11 #

    Irony, anyone?

  • Ramadan 13/09/11 #

    Laura, you are a perfect Catholic and a paragon of virtue, a true believer. What a privilege it is for us ordinary mortals to have you grace this site with your hallowed presence. Your erudition, you knowledge of church history and theology, your deep compassion, your openness, your mirroring of Christ are all so humbling, so awesome, so moving. You can see at a glance the whole panoply of men who have resigned their ministry, and know instantly that they can live useful lives but were never really cut out for priesthood. Such omnipotence, such grace, such blessing. You must stay close to the telephone because the Holy Father will surely call in his hour of need. Please continue to post, and more frequently. The hungry sheep need so much more of your divine insights.

  • Would we allow nuns to marry? I’m all for religious leaders to have the right to marriage, just like ANY other person, but I’d like to think we would allow nuns to marry as well, so that it isn’t a case of, “We’re allowing the priests, so they stop molesting”. I personally have thought that the celibate lifestyle of the priests was to discourage homosexuality, by giving homosexuals a place in society (and when the average lifespan was 35 years, probably not as hard to live a life a celibacy).

    • I think they should allow nuns to marry and allow women to become priests, and men become nuns.

    • AGREED! There is absolutely NO sound reason or logic why a woman should not become a priest.

    • Can you really be making a serious point, I wonder? Surely nuns who marry would be married women with families!! Therefore, not nuns!! Celibacy was not dreamt up as a discouragement of homosexuality. Really, do you really think this? Where did you get this idea? Can you research this and find some article that said this? I would be very curious to know. Then, the average life span??? Actually, celibacy comes from the traditions of the Catholic Church, based on the teachings of St Paul, the apostle to the gentiles and the fact that Jesus said “Unless you can leave father, mother, sisters, brothers, wife….” etc “Then you are not worthy of Me”. Ours is the Royal priesthood, as St Paul says. Celibacy is about sacrifice and about the spiritual life of priests. Their detachment from regular family life, with all its commitments, is essential for the life of our Church. Hope I have enlightened you. God bless.

  • It is my belief that if priests were allowed to marry they would be much more in touch with their parishioners. Also I believe it would probably have prevented a lot of the abuse that happened.

  • Ah, there you go. “Our church”. Not ours. Roman Empire part Deux.

  • I would be interested who voted there NO and why? would be really interesting!

    • Oh, I know, David. I have been living here for over 13 years, and am very involved in local life, and I think I can say I know a little bit about Ireland now. I have my own opinion about celibacy, but because I have given up on the Catholic Church, or any other, I don’t think it’s my place to give opinions on what they should or shouldn’t do.

    • this was meant to be an answer to David Conroy, sarry!

  • Would they not have to practice celibacy before renouncing the vow?

  • Celibacy…? Also if this rule is introduced it should stipulate that marriage and sex can only be carried out with “consenting” adults just to make sure its not some new church scam to cover the rape of children or the rape of people in general by the church,

    • This is a worldly argument against marriage for a priest. Good, as it goes. However, celibacy in the priesthood is not a worldly idea. It is spiritual requirement. When a man decides to be a Catholic priest, he renounces the world – all of the things of the world, including owning his own house, having a wife and children. He does so for the love of Jesus Christ. The best of priests do not belong to the world – as Jesus said about His apostles. They have only spiritual concerns, both for themselves and for their flock. The, by now old, argument about ‘priest raping our children’ as one Irish blogger said, is a misunderstanding of the Child Abuse scandal. Most of the priests involved were homosexual peadophiles. These evil men entered the priesthood under the liberalised rules, where those who knew well these were homosexuals were not allowed to say anything negative about it. What we need is more clarity and honesty from bishops, and a distinct fear of homosexuals entering the priesthood. Celibacy has nothing to do with child abuse. By its very nature, it is a safeguard against sexual abuse! Derrrrrrr!

  • I didn’t read this article, I didn’t need to. I said yes, the days of priests raping children in their care are over in Ireland but not everywhere in the world.

  • Yes if it stops them molesting children or other weird deviant stuff due to their frustrated unnatural existence – luckily in Ireland they are so old they will not be a burden on ustoo much longer

  • Ramadan 14/09/11 #

    Laura, stop trolling.

  • Now this may be a bit to sane an arguement for such a fourm as “The Journal”, but my best friend (in fact he was my best man) is a former seminarian. He left Maynooth about 10 years ago after studying there for three or four years. To this day he argues that it is not fair to ask a woman to marry a priest. He is not necessarily in favour of priestly celibacy, but realises that no woman should have to endure the life of being married to a priest. I can see his point. Being called out in the middle of the night to accidents…(before anyone uses the doctor arguement… my wife is a GP and never gets called out except the two nights a month she is on call) being called out to intervene in domestic violence and so forth. It is a terribly terribly difficult life that a priest leads. This is the sacrafice that the priest makes for “The Job”. Reading the comments above, i can add a further reason why it could be unfair to a wife to be married to a priest. Why should she endure people like many of the contributers above constantly calling her husband a “Peado” and such, even though she in her own mind would know her husband to be an honourable decent man. That would be the cruelest thing of all.

    • What about Vicars ? They have wives and do most of the above if not more in their daily lives, along with being a husband, father ( if he has children) and preacher !! I do not see your point…

    • Yes Ann, that is a fair point. However, the role of the Vicar is somewhat different. The emphasis on the last rights in the case of those near death is not as strong, therefore the vicar tends not to be called out in the middle of the night (certainly not as much as the priest). I know i am speaking only of the Irish context here, but typically if someone comes across a fatal accident (firemen or ambulance crews) they tend to call a priest and not a vicar, and thirdly the vitriolic attacking of all priests with one brush does not apply to vicars. In essence, the role of the vicar is significantly different to that of the priest. In fact i know one vicar, a really great guy, who is a former catholic priest. He would say the same thing.

    • This is a worldly argument against marriage for a priest. Good, as it goes. However, celibacy in the priesthood is not a worldly idea. It is spiritual requirement. When a man decides to be a Catholic priest, he renounces the world – all of the things of the world, including owning his own house, having a wife and children. He does so for the love of Jesus Christ. The best of priests do not belong to the world – as Jesus said about His apostles. They have only spiritual concerns, both for themselves and for their flock. The, by now old, argument about ‘priest raping our children’ as one Irish blogger said, is a misunderstanding of the Child Abuse scandal. Most of the priests involved were homosexual peadophiles. These evil men entered the priesthood under the liberalised rules, where those who knew well these were homosexuals were not allowed to say anything negative about it. What we need is more clarity and honesty from bishops, and a distinct fear of homosexuals entering the priesthood. Celibacy has nothing to do with child abuse. By its very nature, it is a safeguard against sexual abuse! Derrrrr!

    • With regards to Ann Rogers’ point about vicars. Vicars are part of the Protestant Churches – 40,000 different sects and still counting. To compare a vicar to a priest is simplistic, to say the least. Protestants agree with everything the world demands – abortion, contraception, divorce, remarriage and homosexuality, which they welcome into their churches. Priests endeavour to live lives according to the teaching of Our Lord Jesus Christ as ordained by the One Holy Apostolic Catholic Church, which comes to us in a direct line from St Peter. Our Church is a spiritual domain not a worldly one. It really does need to be remembered that Catholics are asked to serve Jesus and not the whims and fashions of the world, which is, after all, fallen from Grace. The Devil can be seen quite clearly in Protestantism and this increasingly Atheistic and secular world. God spare us if we lose our male and celibate priesthood – the one handed down from Jesus Himself.

    • If priest could marry and live a "normal" life like th rest of us, there would probably be more of them, which in turn would reduce the number of nights they would need to be called out. An on call system could be set up.

    • Laura, celibacy was established in the church 1000 years ago, 1000 years after Jesus. Peter, the first pope was married? No?

    • Yes, St Peter was married when he was called by Jesus. But he left his home to follow Jesus. He also left his livelihood and everything that tied him to this world. He was crucified like Our Lord, only this humble man chose to be crucified upside down, so as not to dare to immitate Our Lord. Jesus asks a lot from those who will follow Him. Only those of the world see wives, homes, livelihoods etc as bigger callings than that of our Risen Lord. All of the apostles were called to leave everything and follow Christ. Our wonderful celibate priests endeavour to do the same.

    • John, where do you get your information from? Celibacy was introduced by the Catholic Church around 3-400 years after Christ. This is only a sign of development within the understanding of the Church as to what was required. Most of the saints from the time of Jesus were celibate, understanding that they needed to be free from all encumbrances to freely follow Christ. Their example informed our Church Fathers. The celibacy of the priests of the Catholic Church is an example to the whole world. Devout Catholic priests are the light of the world, as Jesus meant them to be. But there are many today who strive to put out that light.

  • While it makes no difference to me, I completely understand the relevance of the vow of celibacy so I voted No.

    Taking a vow is about making a sacrifice. Sacrifice plays an important part in the Catholic faith. The sacrifice of celibacy is a massive sacrifice to make, thus a greater sign of faith. You don’t need to be a virgin first however.

    That being said, the apostles and the early popes (including St. Peter) were married and many had children too.

    @Josephine, while it’s correct to say that celibacy isn’t a rule as per the bible, I don’t see why that’s relevant. In the New Testament, there is a passage in Corinthians that reads: “The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife”

    I should also say that celibacy doesn’t make someone a rapist or child abuser, so any comments to that effect are highly inappropriate.

  • O how foolish of me we have moved on…further down the sewer.

  • All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Anyone who hasn’t sinned shouldn’t be here with us but should be in heaven! Amazing how people who don’t go to mass or church seem to know everything.

  • Don’t we already have married priests with the recent influx from our Anglican ministry

  • But whatever, the age of consent is still set by statute. Or will this be done away with too?

  • voted wrong as i read totally wrong – OF COURSE they should be allowed to marry! And – it is very very bad without doubt – you can “understand” that they do these horrible horrible things as it is TOTALLY UNNATURAL!!!!!!

  • ! Timothy 3