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Your evening longread: The rockers who found love in 'lonely hearts' ads
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If you were a lonely goth living in a small town in Ireland or the UK from the 70s to the 90s, there was a way of meeting new friends or partners… penpal and lonely hearts ads.
(The Guardian, 10 mins reading time)
Hopeful, passionate and bored fans sent in their photos, names, addresses and obsessions for publication and crossed their fingers, hoping for a big response. Decades before the advent of online forums, fans would then exchange handwritten letters, gushing over the likes of Pat Benatar and Whitesnake. Teenage goths from Scunthorpe and Southend could fall in love, the ice broken by their shared love of Siouxsie and the Banshees. The ads would generally convey a passion for music, but between the lines were cries for connection, pleas for love.
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