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10 changes to make in your 30s to set yourself up for lifelong success

From your health to your wealth.

MANY PEOPLE SPEND their 20s getting some unhealthy behaviours out of their system — like sleeping until 2pm on Saturdays and spending all their disposable cash on new shoes.

But your 30s are an ideal time to cement the habits that will help you achieve personal and professional fulfillment for the rest of your life.

To give you a head start, we sifted through recent Quora threads on this critical life transition and highlighted the most compelling responses.

Here are 10 lifestyle tweaks you can make in your 30s to lay the foundation for lifelong success:

1. Stop smoking.

If you’ve started smoking, stop immediately, suggests Quora user Cyndi Perlman Fink.

While you can’t undo the damage you may have already incurred from smoking, research suggests that those who quit before age 40 have a 90% lower mortality risk than those who continue.

2. Start going to sleep and waking up at the same time every day.

It might be tempting to use the weekends to recoup your sleep debt, but Nan Waldman recommends you hit the hay and wake up around the same time every single day.

If you oversleep for even a few days, experts say you risk resetting your body clock to a different cycle, so you’ll start getting tired later in the day.

Avoid a lifetime of sleep issues by sticking to bedtime and wakeup routines whenever you can.

3. Start exercising regularly.

“Try to move yourself as much as possible,” says Alistair Longman. “It doesn’t matter if it’s walking, cycling, running, weightlifting, hiking, swimming — as long as it involves some movement”.

In the latter half of your 30s, you start losing muscle mass, so it’s especially important to exercise at this time. But remember to choose physical activities you really love, since you’re less likely to continue exercising if you dislike your workouts.

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4. Start keeping a journal.

“Journal your life! Your written records will entertain and endear in your future,” writes Mark Crawley.

Even if you’d prefer to keep your musings to yourself, putting your thoughts and feelings on paper can help you deal with stressful events.

5. Start saving money.

“Building the habit of saving early means you’ll continue it further down the line,” says Cliff Gilley.

It might seem like your golden years are a lifetime away, but the earlier you start saving, the more time your money has to accrue interest.

6. Start pursuing a life dream.

“Don’t delay pursuing your life goals,” writes Bill Karwin.

Want to buy a house? Have kids? Write a book? Pick one of those life goals and get started. What can you do between now and the end of the year to embark on one of them?

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7. Start learning to be happy with what you have.

“If you are content with what you have, you will have a happier life,” says Robert Walker.

It’s really about gratitude: Research suggests that appreciating what you have can increase happiness and decrease negative feelings. Perhaps that’s why Oprah Winfrey kept a daily gratitude journal for years.

8. Stop thinking you need to satisfy everyone.

“After I reached 30, I stopped feeling the need to please everyone. You can choose your friends and contacts more carefully,” says Kevin Teo. In particular, Teo realised he wasn’t obligated to be nice to people who were unfriendly toward him.

Whether you decide to whittle down your Facebook friends to a mere 500 or simply hang out more with the people who make you happy, it’s important to invest your time and energy wisely.

9. Stop comparing yourself to others.

“If you are unable to do some things in life compared to your siblings and friends, then please be at peace with yourself,” advises Mahesh Kay. “Don’t be harsh on yourself.”

As one psychotherapist writes, constantly peering over your shoulder to see what others are doing doesn’t help you accomplish your goals.

You’d be better off spending time thinking about what you want to achieve and evaluating your progress on those fronts.

10. Start forgiving yourself for your mistakes.

“Forgive yourself your mistakes. We all make plenty of them. Don’t dwell on the errors of the past — learn from them, let them go, and move ahead,” writes Liz Palmer.

One social psychologist says that self-compassion (the ability to forgive yourself and learn from your mistakes) is the key driver of success. That’s likely because people who practice self-compassion see their weaknesses as changeable and try to avoid making the same errors in the future.

Read:  What 10 extremely successful people were doing at age 25>

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    Mute Enda Bourke
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    Jun 7th 2015, 8:45 PM

    If you can’t spell success in your 30′s you are rightly f#cked.

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    Jun 7th 2015, 9:47 PM

    Doesn’t no. 7 contradict no. 6?!

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    Mute andrew haire
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    Jun 7th 2015, 11:31 PM

    Ha yeh that’s a good one. If you let someone talk for long enough they always end contradicting themselves.

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    Mute Eoin Fleming
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    Jun 7th 2015, 8:46 PM

    10. Start forgiving yourself for your mistakes.
    Like spelling success wrong in the headline.

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    Mute Pat Snack
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    Jun 7th 2015, 8:34 PM

    Interest on savings? What Financial Institution is doing that now?

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    Mute Al Ca
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    Jun 7th 2015, 8:43 PM

    The sooner you start saving the sooner a banker can have a life style you can only dream of. ;)

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    Mute Patrick Brennan
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    Jun 7th 2015, 9:20 PM

    Bankers don’t make money on savings, they make it on lending.

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    Mute Mrs Shalakalananaka
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    Jun 7th 2015, 9:31 PM

    All of them do.

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    Mute Paul P O'Sullivan
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    Jun 7th 2015, 10:17 PM

    Not strictly true Patrick. Banks hedge all deposits and credit balances (current accounts) so earn money on the interbank market. Currently many of these are loss making due to extremely low Euribor rates but historically these were positive so banks also profited on Deposits as the Euribor return is higher than the interest rate paid to the customers.

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    Jun 7th 2015, 9:29 PM

    And don’t forget to floss :- )))

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    Jun 7th 2015, 9:41 PM

    I’m just turned 30. Still so much to achieve with a bit of hard work and a bit of luck. I will say I am much happier in my own skin than when I was 20.

    As for saving, well hopefully I will get a few quid together before 40…

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    Jun 7th 2015, 10:33 PM

    Your pic makes you look an awful lot older…oh the stress of being a twentysomething

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    Jun 7th 2015, 8:57 PM

    At 39 now… little time to sort out the first 5… Grand for the rest. Though it’s only in the last few years I would even have defined what the “lifelong dream” is for me.

    No rush sure, it’s not all downhill from here!

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    Mute Jason
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    Jun 7th 2015, 9:51 PM

    Going from 29 to 30 was hard for me, going to 40 from 39 didn’t bother me in the slightest.

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    Mute Tallaght two
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    Jun 7th 2015, 10:28 PM

    marry well was missed off the list. one of the main things that will affect the happiness, health and earning power for the rest of your life

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    Jun 7th 2015, 10:54 PM

    Stop drinking wine most nights, have 5 alcohol free nights each week.

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    Jun 8th 2015, 6:37 AM

    Early 30′s were terrible for me for the post part from parent’s being ill to being diagnosed with cancer myself. I did marry though (that is wonderful) and in my later 30′s had my much wanted and totally loved children.

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    Jun 7th 2015, 9:42 PM

    Pension plan.

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    Mute Tallaght two
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    Jun 7th 2015, 9:56 PM

    pensions are a complete gamble. you give money to a company who gamble on your behalf. they take commission every year. they pay themselves bonuses when they get it right. you take the loss when they get it wrong. you can’t touch the money for up to 40 years no matter what Tur circumstances. and in the end it all depends on the amount you get for an annuity years into the future…. oh…. and if you die after 2 years they get to keep it all…. pensions are a cod ppl. nobody would invest in them if the govt weren’t allowing it tax free…. hardly a great sales pitch!

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    Jun 7th 2015, 10:22 PM

    Haven’t heard too many people call having a pension a cod before! We all need to have something for retirement. Property, shares etc have proven far more volatile. Seperate point but I always wonder why pensions are considered tax free? If you save now you still pay the tax on drawdown even if its 30 years away?

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    Mute Al Ca
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    Jun 7th 2015, 10:24 PM

    That’s why my mattress is lumpy.

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    Mute Tallaght two
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    Jun 7th 2015, 10:26 PM

    hey Paul. don’t you think that’s a little strange though…. a multi BILLION dollar worldwide industry and there’s no negative reporting…. by the way I am not saying ppl should not put something away for retirement. I AM saying that pensions are a cod though.

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    Jun 7th 2015, 11:25 PM

    Tallaght Two – you’re dead right about pensions. They are a total scam.

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    Jun 7th 2015, 11:34 PM

    Oh yeah…what’s your address again.

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    Jun 8th 2015, 1:49 AM

    @Tallaght
    How do you recommend someone put something away for the future if not in a pension?

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    Mute Adrian Mc Sweeney
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    Jun 8th 2015, 7:55 AM

    Absolutely spot on. Crowd of hucksters nabbed me fresh out of college. I paid a percentage of my salary into their scheme for a couple of years. When I looked at the figures I was flabbergasted. It was a harsh lesson but a good one. Avoid these cowboys like the plague, they’re worse than bankers

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