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Major report explores reasons behind male suicide

The Samaritans report says that when men don’t reach a ‘gold standard’ they can feel a sense of shame, which in turn can lead to suicidal thoughts.

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AROUND 3,ooo MIDDLE-AGED men die by suicide in the UK and Ireland combined each year, with around 300 of these occurring in Ireland, and now the Samaritans has released a major study that explores some of the reasons behind this.

The report is published today and examines why men from disadvantaged backgrounds in their 30s, 40s and 50s are at higher risk of suicide than the rest of society.

The helpline charity Samaritans said that men from low socio-economic backgrounds living in deprived areas are 10 times more likely to die by suicide than men from high socio-economic backgrounds living in the most affluent areas, and its new report looks at the reasons for suicide beyond mental health.

Samaritans is now calling for suicide to be addressed as a health and social inequality.

Social issue

The research, Men and Suicide: Why it’s a social issue, reveals:

  • Men compare themselves against a ‘gold standard’ which prizes power, control and invincibility. “When they believe they aren’t meeting this standard they feel a sense of shame, which can lead them to have suicidal thoughts”.
  • The report says men in mid-life are now part of the ‘buffer’ generation. This means they are not sure whether to be like their older, more traditional, strong, austere fathers or like their younger, more progressive sons.
  • The changing nature of the labour market over the last 60 years has affected working class men, and the decline of traditional male industries has meant not just the loss of jobs but also a source of masculine pride and identity.
  • Men in mid-life remain “overwhelming dependent” on a female partner for emotional support, the report said. However, men today are less likely to have one life-long partner and more likely to live alone.

Director of Samaritans in Ireland, Suzanne Costello, said:

It has been recently recognised that men in mid-life can no longer be ignored as a group at high risk of suicide. However, this report shows that it is men from low socio-economic backgrounds who desperately need help. Men are often criticised for being reluctant to talk about their problems and for not seeking help. With this in mind, we need to acknowledge that men are different to women and design services to meet their needs, so they can be more effective.

She added that the role of mental health problems in suicide is “well-established and must not be ignored”. But she said that “we also need to look at the economic and social inequalities that contribute to people wanting to take their own lives”.

Six recommendations

Samaritans has six recommendations for the Government, statutory services health, and relevant NGOs when it comes to addressing suicide:

  1. Take on the challenge of tackling the gender and socio-economic inequalities in suicide risk.
  2. Suicide prevention policy and practice must take account of men’s beliefs, concerns and context – in particular their views of what it is to ‘be a man’.
  3. Recognise that for men in mid-life, loneliness is a very significant cause of their high risk of suicide, and help men to strengthen their social relationships.
  4. There must be explicit links between alcohol reduction and suicide prevention strategies; both must address the relationships between alcohol consumption, masculinity, deprivation and suicide.
  5. Support GPs to recognise signs of distress in men, and make sure that those from disadvantaged backgrounds have access to a range of support, not just medication alone.
  6. Provide leadership and accountability at local level, so there is action to prevent suicide.

To contact Samaritans, visit www.samaritans.ie or call 1850 60 90 90.

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Comments (29 Comments)

  • 3000 middle aged men each year alone? That is an absolutely incredible, and shocking figure! Behind each one, a lonely story and a heartbroken family. Words fail me.

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  • RedKev 20/09/12 #

    @niall,I couldn’t agree more. It’s a huge problem that needs serious tackling, if only suicide prevention could get the same attention, focus and funding that road safety gets

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    • reds 20/09/12 #

      I totally agree! While road safety is also important, it claims roughly a quarter of the suicide figures each year but the money is thrown into the advertising and awareness campaigns.

      The government need to check their priorities.

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    • The problem is that it can’t just be about suicide prevention. A full focus needs to be placed on all forms of depression especially the almost unnoticeable conditions which are the most concerning.

      Suicide doesn’t just happen!

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  • In some areas the State has replaced Men as the Breadwinner and supporter of families in 40% of cases making men surplus to requirements as husbands and fathers. The Law of unintended consequences.

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  • We as a society need to encourage all people to open up and trust, not only men. This is just a symptom of the most influential factor, the fact that the human experience has now been equated to a monitory value. We have allowed a system to be created around us that values money instead of the a human life. First major step all people in this nation be given the birth right as a human being to a place to live and provision for food. The family is currently under attack by again a sociopathic structure that we have allowed to be created. Stand in our power and trust and heal within your own family and having this addressed and a priority it will start to address so many of these symptoms, of which suicide is one.

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  • I see alcohol is mentioned briefly in the middle of this report. Drugs especially alcohol are a major factor in suicide. The depression after a binge lasts upto 10 days. It is a major cause of depression and fatigue but our society is in complete denial (me few pints) and it is suppressed by the huge lobby groups who profit from this poison.

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    • Mjhint 20/09/12 #

      Yes Oliver drugs are a major factor. However you have to go further to discover the reasons for this abuse. Many men in Ireland have lost their homes & their income & are suffering from depression & isolation. They are still being persued by banks & state agencies in the courts even though these agencies would be aware of these peoples issues. What are the policies of state agencies including banks towards suicide. What precautions do they take when dealing with people clearly in distress. This is a huge problem & all we hear about it is a deafening silence.

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    • Hear!
      Hear! Mjint.
      I have had first hand experience with many bankers and it is as if they were trained in customer care by the Fuhrer himself.

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    • Financial stress, as well as other categories of stress sources are factors for depression, especially in middle aged mean.
      However, in younger aged men, the drugs/alcohol don’t tend to be used as a depression self-medication, they are initiated purely for recreational use.

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    • Mjhint 20/09/12 #

      Oliver I fully agree with that view but its the financial issues that are not being dealth with properly. We do have policies & programmes to deal with substance abuse even with state agencies. However not for financial woes. There is only the courts.

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    • Are you a doctor Oliver??

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  • horrible to think of a generation feeling abandoned and useless, especially after they have gone through such rough times already and theyre just left no the scrap heap

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  • There’s a track on the brilliant new Dexy’s album(One Day Im Going to Soar) called ‘Its Ok John Joe’.
    It’s about isolation,essentially,and also about how expression gives a vent for that sense of isolation.
    If you can’t ‘get it out there’ you’re in trouble. Some people dont find that easy. I hope we get better at noticing them.
    Too many suicides.

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  • Why so many thumbs down for @john sense of humour. As someone who sees a lot of very sad cases through work I know the value of something that can bring a smile

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  • Sadly its my opinion that number is conservative at best. Long held the belief especially outside Dublin coroners come under big pressure from family relatives to change cause of death on suicides. Also the number of solo Male late night drivers who find the one tree on a road needs to be questioned as well

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    • I really want to disagree with you on the lone male drivers. But I cannot, and as much as I want to believe that they are as ‘accidental’ as they might otherwise appear – the fact of the matter is that, like suicide itself, we will never really know the final emotive actions of those involved.

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    • I agree with Richard and I think more should be done to try and conclude if there is a high probability that an accident was intentional. There are ways of determining the probability that a crash wasn’t an accident but the problem is swept under the carpet.

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  • Louis McCullagh from Belfast has just made a short film “Standup”. It is about a lad who commits suicide. His dad finds a video he made and it has a huge affect on him. There is a screening in QFT Belfast at 5 on Sunday. This IS a powerful emotive and shocking film. Visit the website http://www.standupthemovie.co.uk for all the information you need.

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  • The article should read “around 300″ not 3000. Still shocking numbers!

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  • The Journal have just killed off 2700 middle aged men..

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  • I think we need to look at this the same way as the health ans safety pyramid used for workplace accidents. Those 300 fatalities are the top of the pyramid. Below that is probably a thousand serious incidents 3000 minor incidents and 30000 near misses. We have to put in place strategies that reduce the number of near misses to reduce the number of fatalities. It works in the workplace. It should also work in the social sphere. We need to reduce the number of men feeling isolates lonely cut off and useless and reap the benefit in reduced substance abuse, risky behaviour and fatalities

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  • There is some merit in this report but there it dies not manage to avoid the use of stereotypes especially female centric stereotypes.

    The following quote is just laughable [middle aged men] “are not sure whether to be like their older, more traditional, strong, austere fathers or like their younger, more progressive sons.”

    Evidence that the report is contains errors generated by the “hindsight bias” and authors’ perspective bias.

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    • That line does sound a bit pop-psychological alright.
      I think the report is to be praised though on a number of counts. One is that it recognises that men are inherently different from women (duh) and all the “why can’t men be more like women and just call their friends for a good moan when they’re feeling down, or go to their GP at the drop of a hat” won’t change things. So much that is written and said about suicide assumes that all that’s needed is for men to be quicker to “ask for help.”
      Even more laudably it seeks to seperate the issuses of suicide and mental health. While mental illness and the experience of psychiatry are linked to many suicides, it is a fallacy that all people who take their own lives are by definition suffering from a mental health problem.

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