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Thursday 9 February 2023 Dublin: 2°C
# Sex Week
The Diaries: The woman in her early 30s sleeping with a work colleague
“I’ve been seeing a guy for a few weeks now…

EVERY NIGHT THIS week as part of our Sex Week will be running a seven-day diary submitted by readers.

The Editor asked each diarist to anonymise their entries but to be as honest as possible in terms of activities and thoughts.

The diaries have been lightly edited for style and length but are the diarist’s own words.

First up, is a woman in her early 30s…

She has just started ‘something’ with a work colleague and after a few weeks of dating, they are embarking on a sexual relationship. Here was her week: 


“I’ve been seeing a guy for a few weeks now. We had sex for the first time yesterday. It was a pretty big deal for me to wait six weeks before we had sex, but I actually like this guy and so it felt normal for me to wait.

We’re colleagues and no one else knows about us. I know we’ll be seeing each other tonight so I’m just trying to focus on that.

“I meet him for dinner after work. A picnic in the park. All quite romantic. I can’t stop kissing him. We go back to mine after and spend the evening cuddling and fooling around. Ending up in sex.

“He takes me from behind and makes me cum multiple times using his hands on my clit. When we’re finished I can’t move a muscle. I’m in some sort of stupor. We spend the rest of the evening spooning.”


I woke up this morning feeling very horny. I knew I had a date this evening so I didn’t do anything to relieve my horny state.

“Having to use condoms is a pain in the ass. Total mood killer and quite awkward. He took me from behind tonight again, this is by far my favourite position and thankfully it’s his too. It was fast, hard and sweaty. Resulted in him cumming, me being on the brink and then him being a gentleman and finishing me off with his hands.”


“Woke up this morning replaying last night over and over in my head. Really tired today. Contemplated watching a bit of porn and masturbating after work but I’m too tired.”


“Masturbated before going to sleep last night. Used my rampant rabbit vibrator and watched some group sex porn on redtube. I always find it easier to cum this way than with someone else. I think it’s because I think too much.”


“Nothing to note.”


“Pretty horny today. Masturbated using my vibrator again. Thinking of the sex I had had during the week. I came pretty quickly.”


“Nothing to note.”


Dinner date tonight. Finding it hard to concentrate throughout the day. The evening can’t come quick enough. Dinner and then back to mine.

“A lot of foreplay, cuddling and kissing turns into sex. He went on top, my legs up in the air like some sort of yoga position. It worked. I’ve never cum through penetration alone but was so, so close to it with this position. He cums and then uses his hands slow and steady to whip me up into some sort of frenzy. I cum hard.

He then takes me from behind. It’s hard, fast and insanely intense.”

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