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Women are writing anonymous essays on this blog about how to give them better orgasms

They’re rather NSFW…

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WOMEN HAVE BEEN sharing advice on a blog on how their sexual partners can give them better orgasms.

The site is called How To Make Me Come and contains more than 70 essays written anonymously by women.

Writers are asked to:

Imagine you could give this essay to a past or future sexual partner, free of judgement or repercussion. What would you want them to know?

Some of the women give details of past sexual disappointments:

He fingered me terribly, barely stroking my clit a few times before giving up. I asked him to get off his back and have sex from behind. A few thrusts in the beginning were great, but it quickly fell sour. He got sooooo tired and gave up. Did he not know how to have sex from this position??? What was he tiring so quickly from? Perhaps he needs to get his metabolism levels checked out…

Most shared experiences of sexual pleasure with men who knew what they were doing:

I told you exactly what to do. The second I did, you listened, you followed instructions, and suddenly, on a Saturday afternoon during magic hour, the sunset filtered through wooden blinds, it felt just like that moment in a movie when the camera zooms into someone’s iris, and you see all the [sic] roygbivness of life in super speed motion, a crash of sounds, smash cuts to dancing, space travel, people f***ing, ending with an opera singer’s chandelier smashing high note.

And some gave advice to men looking for tips on how to give the ladies in their lives better orgasm:

Try to keep up with my endurance. Don’t get too excited about my arousal too quickly, pace yourself. It takes me a while to get in, but when I’m in, I’m all in. And please don’t be okay with me not having an orgasm. Unless I tell you I don’t want to. Then I mean it, the moment has passed.
The more turned on This Girl gets, the more sensitive she will be down there. Slow is good. Deep is good. One finger at a time please. Once I cum, I’m going to need you to pull out slowly and let me lay there for a second. School policy.
Also, feel free to ask to watch me touch myself. -If you haven’t already, LEARN TO FIND THIS HOT. You will learn so much about how my particular body works by watching me work with it. This is also HELLA intimate, thus very erotic. AND, let’s just be honest- you’ll be letting me do some of the work for you.

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Anyone interested in reading all 72 essays can find them here.

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