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Friday 3 February 2023 Dublin: 12°C
# Sex Week
The Diaries: The single 30-year-old man chatting to women online
“Chatting to a friend, she tells me about how she posts…

This article contains content of a very explicit nature. 

EVERY NIGHT THIS week as part of our Sex Week series will be running a seven-day diary submitted by readers.

The Editor asked each diarist to anonymise their entries but to be as honest as possible in terms of activities and thoughts.

The diaries have been lightly edited for style and length but are the diarist’s own words.

Last up is a 30-year-old single man…


“Chatting to a friend, she tells me about how she posts nude anonymous pics online on reddit forum called gonewild. She mentions it because I had told her a while back I liked to do something similar but I’ve never used reddit.

She says I should try it. There’s a subreddit called ladybonersgw for guys to post and where women can view. I post some pics there, tagging them under Irish to see if it will get them noticed. They get upvoted a bit and some nice comments. Ego patted for the day.”


“Wake up to a nude picture sent from a girl I met on Tinder. We’ve not met but there has been some naughty chat on whatsapp. Reply but she’s gone to work. Masturbate in the shower before going for the bus. I whatsapp her after to tell her I thought about her while doing it.

“Make plans to meet only person I’ve met from Tinder in real life on Monday. We’ve slept together a few times but we’re both off work so will be first proper meet up with sex on the agenda.”


“Get a message on the reddit a/c I used to post those pics suggesting I should post on another subreddit r/massivecocks. The user is a guy.

I’m not bi but I have in previous times posted pictures in places guys would predominantly be lurking. Probably an ego thing.

“I decide to post. The Irish thing seemed to work well on the other subreddit so tried that as a title and get a lot of upvotes and tonnes of messages from guys, as well as people claiming to be in a couple, looking to chat and swap pics. Engage a bit but most aren’t too genuine.

“Get one message from a guy who claims he and his girlfriend would like to meet, chat on kik and turns out they’re actually legit. We swap pics, they send a video of themselves fucking, initially it’s hot but they’re incredibly immature and I lose interest quickly.”


“Still messaging that couple. The woman fantasises about being fucked by another man who’s well endowed. That’s her thing. I start to get the impression he may be more into it than her, and maybe she’s being coerced, so delete them and that’s that.”


Tinder girl calls to mine. We chat for a while and then fuck on the couch. There was a little foreplay. She’s soaking wet and it lasts about 20 minutes. After I cum, I go down on her and we fuck again.

“We go out for a walk, sleep together again when we get back. Do it on the landing, her up against the bannisters, from behind. She loves having her clit played with roughly while I’m inside her. We go to bed then. She wakes me up for sex during the night. Initially I brush it off but she insists. Not sure if either of us orgasmed, we eventually just fall asleep on top of each other.”


We shower together in the morning. We have sex but it’s more low key than the night before. We’re both wrecked. It’s still nice though. I drop her to town, then into work.


“I haven’t used Tinder in a few days but it’s a slow day in work so log in. Lots of matches piled up. Start a few chats. Mostly normal banter. One girl has a picture of her in handcuffs in her profile so I make a cheeky comment about it and we somehow end up going off into 50 shades territory with her telling me how she likes to be dominated.

“The chat escalates and she asks for a dirty picture. I oblige from the work bathroom. She returns the favour and sends me a video of her bouncing her boobs in her bra. She’s very attractive, may ask her to meet if we can maintain the chat for a day or two.”

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